Just because your sexlife lacks in a relationship does that mean you can't continue the love? Are the two so attatched that they can't persist without the other? If you do think they can exist seperately, then does that justify sex outside the relationship?
2006-09-25 07:21:06 · 10 answers · asked by 46&2 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Almost everyone claims they are seperate but then go on to say that sex outside the relationship means that the love is rendered invalid. That is a contradiction is it not? In my mind it seems so. If they are seperate then why would it matter if you are doing it outside the relationship?
2006-09-25 07:53:07 · update #1
Love and sex are different entities
2006-09-25 07:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Annie R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe the two can exist separately. Think about how many people have sex with someone they just met; there is no love in that relationship. If you are in a relationship and the sex is lacking, then I think the love can continue if you want it to. One example would be people that can't have sex due to medical reasons or separation (like the military) but the people continue to love each other.
2006-09-25 07:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by jacemo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex outside the relationship is wrong. currently my wife is not able to have sex because of a prolapsed bladder surgery. I'm use to getting laid about 4 times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. I love my wife, but I have to admit, my eye wonders from time to time. I'm a good looking guy, I get hit on a lot. but I know if I cross that line, my wife will not love me the same ever again. to answer the question, its obvious. sex and love are two different things. thats why its possible to screw a hooker. its not love, its getting a nut off. Lastly, you have to know this. if you have sex withsomeone else your relationship loses its innocense(mispelled, but who cares) once a relationship has to endure this, its pretty much over. you're no longer one, you're now two very different people. Trust old uncle Huge on this...buy a plastic vagina and forget about it if it can be fixed. if it can't be fixed and you have to have sex, end it. But if you cheat life changes for the rest of your life.
2006-09-25 07:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Huge. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree. There can be love and no sex. There can be sex and no love. So no I don't think the two are attached. When there is love (personal opinion) the sex is better. When there is sex (in a relationship) the love is better.
Justifing sex outside the relationship..? Again (my personal thoughts) if you seek sex outside the relationship is there really love? Email me if you want to talk
2006-09-25 07:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mega 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, not often but it can happen.sexual atraction between men and women is universal, but most usualy results in emotional atachments that can be devistating later on. in my expierence it has always pre aranged and well thought out prior to starting the "affair" the opposite is more or less true. first you must define love and where it fits in your life and into picture.my opinion is that sex deprivation is a contributing factor to a lot of crimes that are not ofa sexual nature. this is a very contraversal queston you have ask
2006-09-25 07:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by houdini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my family AND I will not be having sex with any of them anytime soon!!
Yes love and sex is seperate !
2006-09-25 08:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can love someone and have bad sex with them. but don't expect to be with that person forever or for it to be a monogamous relationship anyway. when you are young, you think...oh, sex isn't everything...blah, blah, blah. why would you want to be with someone that you can't enjoy in every possible way?
2006-09-25 07:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can exist seperately i had loved soem one but hen what happened was um the person didn't want sex with me but they wanted me and i didn't want them so yeah sex and love can be different
2006-09-25 07:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by kimberly66626 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can? Yes, of course! Should NOT, though, preferably.
2006-09-25 07:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes they can.
2006-09-25 07:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by SavageLettuce 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋