We are going on our annual camping trip with my college friends. It is me and my girlfriend and 7 of my guy friends (two of them are bringing thier girlfriends: so total of 8 guys and 3 girls). This year they booked the trip to a nude beach. My girlfriend and I have never been to a nude beach before. I am fine with it but I have yet to ask her. Before I bring up the subject to her I want to see of any of you ladies would go.
So would you go to a nude beach where you would be one of 3 girls with 8 guys? All the guys will be getting nude for sure but the girls may or may not and my girlfriend does't have to. But she will see all of them nude whether or not she joins in. Would you go?
2006-09-25 06:55:47 · 9 answers · asked by calidzyner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I absolutely love the nude beach! Once you're there, you forget that you're naked in a few minutes and just enjoy an awesome beach day.
As a girl, I was a bit apprehensive the first time I went (I went with three guys and one other girl on the last day of classes at the end of our freshman year in college), but once we got there and I got naked, that passed quickly. One of the nice things about the nude beach is that it's really clothing optional, meaning that your girlfriend can be fully dressed, just topless or completely naked...whatever she likes and feels most comfortable with.
Being aropund other naked people on the beach is a great way for a first-timer to get over the very normal anxiety about being naked in public...it really becomes no big deal rather quickly, and let me tell you...it's a great feeling! Nudity in appropriate situations (like a beach, pool etc.) is really a very normal way to be, and a nude beach vacation with friends is a great start.
One thing: don't pressure her to get naked or even take her top off if she doesn't want to. That will come in due time, but if it becomes an issue it can spoil the entire experience.
Also, be prepared for possible jealousy on your part at the idea of your friends seeing your girlfriend topless or naked...it might happen or not, but be prepared to get over it if it does.
Last thing, there's always the possibility that some of the guys may end up with boners when they see your girlfriend topless or naked for the first time, especially if they haven't been to a nude beach before. It happens, and we (girls) don't get upset by it as long as the guys don't flaunt it or play with it...you get the picture, I'm sure. Just be cool about it, lie over on your stomach for awhile until it passes and then forget about it...
Bottom line...I've ben going to the nude beach for the past 4 years, and will never wear a bathing suit again. I've probably been there over a hundred times, many times with friends (guys and girls) or alone if nobody was free to go on a particular day. I love it, and so will you.
Have fun...and bare hugs!
2006-09-25 09:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nude Ladies On Beach
2016-11-07 09:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd pass. I don't want all my BF's friends seeing me nude and then, maybe, later discussing stuff with the BF (or each other).
I know how you guys are, you'd be like "Whoa, did you see how big so-and-so's nipples are?" and "Hey, man, why didn't you tell us that your girl trims her bush?"
In fact, I'd be pretty upset if my BF was discussing private stuff like whether anything's pierced, shaved, trimmed or whatever.
But, then again, I know my BF wouldn't want to go to a nude beach because he's VERY self-conscious about the fact he put on a lot of weight when he quit smoking and now looks like he's pregnant. He's still terrific anyway, LOL!
2006-09-25 07:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
id never go to a nude beach im too conservative. going to the nude beach with your friends and your girl friend is not a good idea. what if your friends start lusting after her or vise versa. your risking a lot. not to mention it'll be a bit awkward
2006-09-25 07:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if my bf wanted me also to go and be nude and have fun with him I would go but it's not like I really like nude beaches:-D
2006-09-25 07:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is...and what makes it worse is the way he told you he would do it. You should recommend him one beach and a specific time when gorgeous women are there....and out of the blue you will show up naked in front of him. That would be hilarious and a great payback. Maybe a little too much it depends on how you think he would react.
2016-03-18 01:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but send me an e-mail first to get to know you a little more.
2006-09-25 07:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Shu13r!@ #n p0#3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY, TO OLD FAHIONED I GUESS.
2006-09-25 07:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
2006-09-25 07:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by vicky c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋