To get my husband to go down on me? He says he likes to, but he hardly ever does. I am always begging to give him oral, why doesn't he do the same? I am always clean and smooth, it's not like I don't take care of myself. I don't want to just come out and ask him to do it, then it won't be as good because I would have had to ask him for it. Guys, wouldn't it be the same for you? If your gf/wife never gave you oral, it would kill the mood to ask for it? Because then you couldn't ever tell if they did it because they "wanted" to and not because they felt obligated because you asked them? That kills it for me. Any suggestions? Guys what gets you turned on enough to want to go down?
2006-09-25 06:52:20 · 17 answers · asked by verhotica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask for it. I love it when my girl asks me to "e*t her *uss*"!
2006-09-25 06:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever watch porn movies together? If so, there is almost always a 'licking' scene, or two, or three....lol. Make remarks about how that looks sooooo good to you. How good it would feel and so on. Make it an obvious hint.
If you don't watch porn movies, maybe you could come up with some other way to bring it up to at least let him you you are into it big time.
If he already knows you like it, and he's not doing it.......I hate to say it, but it's probably your body chemistry. Some women smell incredibly good, others okay, and still others.......not good at all. In fact it's so bad it's a turn off. And I'm talking about women that have been right out of the shower, good hygiene and all that. It's just their body chemistry.
If I reallly loved someone tho, I'd do it for them anyway. I happen to love doing this. I don't need an excuse! I'm into giving it big time....lol. But I like gettin' it too......lol. So if he's getting it, then you should be able to get the ball rolling by letting him know you'd like to get it too. Yes you'd have to ask, but you *should* only have to ask once or twice until he knows you want it so badly, after that, he should do it on his own....for you.....to please you.
If you think it is your body chemistry, maybe you could look at your diet and make some changes. Just an idea, and he may not find your female 'scent' appealing and have no idea how to approach you about it without fear of hurting your feelings.
Are you approachable? Do you get ticked off easily? Do you get all confrontational if he brings up things like this with you?....sensitive issues?
That's all I can think of. Don't know if this helps you or not, but maybe it will. Good luck tho.......too bad, that's a terrible thing to go without. For me it's half the whole part of a sex life.
2006-09-25 14:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i wouldn't need to be prompted as this is something i LOVE to do. But, my wife never gives me oral either, so i feel your pain. But then again, i'd rather just have sex than oral sex anyway, so no big deal.
But yeah, having to ask for it, can ruin it some, that's for sure. You could give him extra cues when he DOES do it (moaning more, etc.) or you could help to guide him to the promised land...either help push his head there, or squirm around till it's in his face. Or, find someway to tell him you want it to happen to you. For example, while watching TV or a movie and it happens, make a comment that you really enjoy that too, or something like that.
If all else fails, be blunt. Tell him you like to receive oral. Don't ask him to do it, but just tell him that you like it. He might not know that you like it, and he'd appreciate any help from you.
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2006-09-25 14:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are clean and smooth like you say that is the best. He should be willing and ready to go down on you. My wife stays clean and smooth too and that has made me want to do that even more than before. I would have a hard time with a women who is not clean shaven now.
2006-09-25 14:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by sportyscott_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My screen name says it all !!! I just love doing it and my gf takes full advantage of it. The best way to wake up in the morning is with her lowering herself onto my lips. Some guys think it's grose I guess. I have to ask but it doesn't stink does it ? Serious ! My gf smells & tastes sweet so I'm sure that's why she gets it all of the time. Unfortunately I've been down under on someone who smelled NASTY !!! Needless to say I was only down there for about 5 seconds. And just being clean and smooth doesn't fix the odor or the taste.. My advice would be to ask him straight up - Is he just not into it or does it smell or taste nasty.
2006-09-25 13:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my guy. he is just selfish though and always wants the BJ. Tell him to do it, dont ask it anymore. You are wasting your time. men are lunkheads. and they like an assertive woman. You sound young and nice but eventually, you get tired of always waiting for them to do what you want so if you tell them (and you always have to tell them and then tell them again later) yu at least get what you want. and if you tell them how awesome it was and how it turned you on etc etc they will be more excited the next time. dont be afraid to be assertive. it works.
peace~
2006-09-25 13:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be open and communicate with your husband. Tell him what you want and if all else fails, why should he get something satisfying when you don't? I think that hint was strong enough.
2006-09-25 14:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow....getting a little stiff just reading your question. In casual conversation, I told my gf that it would be totally acceptable if she were to strut into the bedroom naked and strattle my face. I just do it as a natural progression through foreplay, but I would love if she just said, "Lick my p*ssy." Be slutty in bed.......MEN WANT THE GIRL NEXT DOOR WHEN YOU HAVE YOUR CLOTHES ON, BUT WANT A SLUTTY LITTLE SEX GODDESS WHEN YOU HAVE YOUR CLOTHES OFF. Create a slutty persona for yourself and strattle that face.
2006-09-25 14:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Shyguy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way with my girlfriend, she goes down on me like once a month and its incredible but i wish she would do it more regularly, even just if she warmed me up that way . . . i dont want o feel like im making her and i havent firgured out what to do - i mean i love eating her out, i could do it all day its one of my favorite things , if you figure something out let us know
2006-09-25 13:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...I'd personally love to hear a woman request it...or even demand it.
Give it a try. I bet you'll enjoy the results.
2006-09-25 13:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Glockmeister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a number of things you can do to encourage this..
1- TELL HIM... push his head down there and say.... please.. I need it
2- Buy something edible to wear and have him enjoy the treat!
3- watch a video together on the techiques and then have him try them on you
2006-09-25 14:01:53 · answer #11 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋