so my question is can a cheater find there soulmate and stop cheating or do they still cheat? Is a soul mate someone that makes you just as happy 10 years down the road as they did the day you got together???
BTW im not cheatin or whatever just had this question pop into my head...wondered what the thoughts of others where
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2006-09-25 06:41:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once a cheater always a cheater is not true, it's just said by those who have been hurt and are angry.
It is entirly possible for someone who once cheated to find a soul mate as long as they mature and stop cheating.
A soul mate is someone that makes you so happy that just being with them makes you want to be a better person, someone you can look at and know that even when they are old, gray and sagging they will still be beautiful to you, someone who even though you were doing fine before they came along you just can't imagine your life without them now.
2006-09-25 06:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by PrincessB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know people that cheated, got caught, decided their spouses were who they wanted to be with and never cheated again.
Soulmate is an odd term I wish people would stop using. I would imagine if one was your soulmate, you'd grow and change and support each other through your lives and the love would change and evolve, but would remain forever. On the other hand, I imagine any two adults that get together are going to have tough times, soulmates or not. So...there are many factors that affect both. If I still loved my man ten years down the road, I would consider him my soul mate for sure.
Interesting question. Best of luck to you.
2006-09-25 06:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated and I did find my soulmate while I was married. I would never even think to do it again. We have the greatest relationship. I cheated in the past because I settled the first time. I learned from my mistakes and what not to do. I am glad it happened. I found my best friend now. Once a cheater is BS if you are willing to work ,you can
2006-09-25 06:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a cheater can find their soulmate and stop cheating...i found my soulmate but not while i was cheating or anything. I was iin an unhappy marriage and cheated felt bad and left him. we got divorced andi would never cheat on anyone ever again because i know how much it hurts someone. i would rather hurt someone by leaving them rather than finding another lover. i found my soulmate almost a year later and now we have a beautiful 8 month old daughter so those sayings are for the paast. but i do believe the sayings are to stick for those who don't respect others hearts and bodies.
2006-09-25 06:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by rosie9977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's a "soulmate" to begin with? Success in relationships is not pre-determined, but comes from hard work on the parts of both people. If both people are committed to make the relationship work, it has a chance of lasting a long time. If one person's idea of committment is different from that of his partner's, it will most likely result in a lot of hurt and disappointment. A "cheater" may stop cheating for different reasons - but the fact that they have been doing it habitually means they're unlikely to stop no matter whom they're in a relationship with. A "soulmate" is not some magical thing, it's just a figure of speech for people who are respectful of the relationship and are committed to it, and it takes two to make it work.
2006-09-25 06:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I 'm a soul mate person. I have married mine and we have been going strong for 10 years. I do love him more today than yesterday. Everyone always comment on "the happy couple". We look in love, hold hands - sit together - kiss often. I just love him!
I knew I loved him about 30 minutes after we meet. SCAREY, to have a feeling that strong smack you.
As for the cheater....I think that has to do with someone is looking for their soul mate, but doesn't want to be alone in the process.
2006-09-25 06:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by WhatNext 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was a cheater. Married young cause I was pregnant, abusive husband who only cared about himself. I cheated alot and am not proud of it. There are a sh*tload of variables so lets not go down the long and winding road of why.
currently, I am with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years. After my divorce (married 18 years) I made the decision that I didnt want to be a cheater, that I dont need to be.
I love my guy and the sex is great but not enough.
so I daydream about getting it on with dfferent guys but dont and wont.
I hope...
2006-09-25 06:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by cici 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe either saying. Not everyone has a soul mate, and not everyone who has cheated will cheat again. These are just things people tell themselves and each other in order to make life seem simpler and more comprehensible. They have their heads in the sand, though. There are 7 billion people in this world and every single one of them is different from all the others. Some people die lonely having never loved, while others fall in love multiple times, each time proclaiming "THIS one is my sould mate!" Some people cheat and later become saints. Other people cheat serially. Good luck finding your answers.
2006-09-25 06:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I base my decision on learn and know-how the human techniques. besides as arms on adventure. i do no longer think in each case as quickly as a cheater is usually a cheater. on occasion as quickly as is adequate for somebody to realize the errors they made and could never repeat it ever lower back. even however there are repeat offenders. those are the common cheaters. those are the varieties of people who have had various sexual relationships in the previous and function a greater robust than informal attitude to dedication. As on your guy buddies who're sticking around to develop their young little ones. A noble attempt, yet in addition a risky one. in the event that they are in an unhappy concern, the little ones are going to work out and study their undesirable habit. you could no longer cover dishonest out of your loved ones without somebody noticing some thing. in the event that they intend to stay with their better halves for yet another 10 or 14 years, the probabilities are high their mistresses gets drained of their relationships and that they'll circulate directly to different women to fill the void.
2016-12-12 14:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are just sayings. Some people cheat once and never cheat again. Some people never find a soulmate. Everyone is different.
2006-09-25 06:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋