My spouse wanted me to sell my property that I had before the marriage to help him out with his business. I currently stay in his property that he owned before the marriage. I asked him once I sell my property would he put my name on his proprty and he told me No. He needed somethng to fall back on. I thought that this was not fair and not a person to be trusted.
2006-09-25 06:26:07 · 42 answers · asked by Key Key 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait one minute! He wants you to give it your all but he doesn't want to give it his all! You can probably still trust him but what ever you do - DO NOT sell your property!!!!! If something happens you still have somehting to fall back on as well, fair is fair! He is probably just looking to save his business but if it isn't in your name and his property isn't in your name then hold on to what you have there is a different way to save it without you having to give up what you have! Don't do it!!!!
2006-09-25 06:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you sign a pre-nup prior to your marriage?
Well, whether or not you did...Do NOT sell your property! Why doesn't he use a line of equity loan on his property for his business? Why is his fall-back more important than yours? Why can't he take out a small-business loan?
I would have him explain to you his benefit in your property being sold, as apposed to his.
If you do sell your property, do NOT sell it before he puts your name on his lease, mortgage, etc. If he refuses, tell him he'll have to find an alternative financial plan for his business.
Good luck
2006-09-25 07:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by niteowl716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound fair to me!! What do you have to fall back on if you sell your property? Either he makes you a partner in his business or puts your name on the title of the house! one or the other! or you keep your property! I think the later is the best solution! Let him take out a loan or a second mortgage on his property!!! be strong and do not let him take advantage of you!!!
2006-09-25 06:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it. Not right at all. Someone is a little less than committed in this marriage, huh? Sounds like you will NEED your property to fall back on. I am not trying to be mean, but hubby just waved a jerk flag. He can mortgage his own property for his own business that your name isn't on. Are you guys in this together or is it all about him? Sorry. Best of luck to you.
2006-09-25 06:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is not fair at all. Just tell him your not going to sell your property that you may need it as well to have something to fall back on. And he does sound like he can't be trusted. He needs to remember it's not all about him. Don't let him talk you into it, don't do something you will regret.
2006-09-25 06:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you have better since than to sell YOUR property..Tell him no that you need something to fall back on if this marriage didn't work..Never trust anyone that wants you to get rid of your things but won't put you down as part owner of his things..He sounds like he wants it ALL..He wants to take but not give..
2006-09-25 06:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard it. Keep it and tell him you want something to fall back on too.
Personally I think he is a jerk to ask something of you and not offer the same in return.
Now the question is do you stay with someone that won't treat you fair and someone you cannot trust?
2006-09-25 06:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is supposed to be 50/50. I think your spouse sees everything as his. I would suggest you two try to talk about this some more. If he is unwilling to give, maybe you should hang on to your assets to be sure of your future. I don't think he has made the commitment to your marriage. Good Luck.
2006-09-25 06:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by skynickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't sell your property without putting your name on his property, do that first to be safe, if not then no marriage. Heed what I say
2006-09-25 06:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did the two of you sign a prenuptial agreement? This man is going to sell your property, keep the money for himself, and when it's gone, he is going to dump you. Get out now!!
2006-09-25 06:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋