I found out that my bud did searches on photos of big cock.. and he probably is gay or curious, should I confront him? and how do I?
2006-09-25 06:16:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't know how old you are (some folk here seem to be of fairly short years), but I used to be really self-conscious about whether I was normal or not. How big, is it supposed to curve that way (is it supposed to hurt when I try to keep it from curving), what is normal? I have no desires of other men, but I did want to see if what they had was like what I had and how mine stacked up against the competition.
Remember that fun skit in SNL with a Sean Connery-character playing Jepordy? The Alex Trubek-character asked for the next topic and Connery saw "The pen is mightier" and said, "the p-e-n-i-s mightier" Trubek corrected "pen, is". Connery, in proper form, said, "Whatever, the question is, does it work?" In those pictures, how are they used? That is the issue. Do they picture them used with women, or men?
2006-09-25 07:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's not gay it's apprent that he's curious. This same thing happen to me with two of my friends a male and a female. I asked them not because i'm a homophobic or anything but because I am a very considerate person and i want them to know that they have my support. You should ask him he can either answer yes he's curious or no he's straight.
Good luck
Day Dream
2006-09-25 06:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Yo #1 Day Dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why confront him? Just be supportive and respectful. If you act like it's a big deal that he *must* tell you about, he'll probably retreat into his shell like a turtle.
2006-09-25 06:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with an earlier post. your friend just might want to see what the world considers to be a big weiner so he can figure out how he measures up. most guys have an interest in other guys' penises, i mean usually it's porn with bigger penises that is more exciting. that doesn't mean you are gay. it's just more fun to pretend that's you. i had a friend ask me while we were drunk and watching porn how big my penis was; i didn't show it but i took the question to be just one from my straight friend who was insecure. it didn't mean he wanted to sleep with me. he just wanted information.
2006-09-25 15:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Donovan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"confront" is not the right approach, friend. If he is your bud, then if its important to you, you could tactfully try to ask him and understand it. Maybe you'll then decide that you arent compatible or maybe you'll be even closer friends.
2006-09-25 06:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by reggaeboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter to find out if he's gay or not? Just be a friend and don't do anything.
2006-09-25 07:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say he is your friend,so if he is gay will you continue to be friends?why confront him about what you found?has he hit on you?if he hasnt then dont say a word,,unless you are hoping to get with him
2006-09-25 07:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what good it would do to embarrass the poor guy. Just be his friend and if he feels the need he will tell you. If not, respect his decision not to.
2006-09-25 06:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no he may not b ready let him take his time just b supportive and if he wants to he will come out or if u like him take ur time.
2006-09-25 09:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by djonecat@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is not wanting YOU to do something you are not interested in. Leave him alone! It's none of your business.
2006-09-25 06:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋