I had this man who volunteered to train me. During the first ten hour session, he introduced me to all the partners and was constantly explaining things to me. He's good looking, kind, and I have to admit attractive, but I would never mix my building career with personal life and made sure I didn't show it. Near the end of the shift, we went back to headquarters where he had some things to do before he left. I stuck around to spend time with the other partners while everyone was finishing up work. My training-partner left so suddenly with barely saying goodbye, which seemed uncharacteristic. As I left the building with his partners, they were like "what was his rush all about" and then they told me he had a wife and kid on the way. I had no idea, I thought maybe he had a girlfriend at most, and out of all the talking we did.... he didn't mention them once!!
Now I have a bad gut feeling. I did't think I did anything wrong, but something's not right. what the hell could this be?
2006-09-25 06:06:04 · 4 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
perhaps it is you learning something about expectations
2006-09-25 06:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by ỉη ץ٥ڵ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 14:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just learn from this and move on. They'll be more experiences as such and you also learn to be like this sometimes.
2006-09-25 06:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be unfounded guilt. It's not you that put up a deception.
2006-09-25 06:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by Theodore K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋