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I discovered our marriage was based on fraud & he'd been planning on divorcing me from the beginning of our marriage.

2006-09-25 06:03:05 · 12 answers · asked by Amy 3 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

No Im not Catholic..... Everyone warned me at the beginning he was only using me, but I was blind. Now 6 years later, he got what he needed from being married. Fine, let him go. I'll recover & I'll take care of my little girl without him. But why should he benefit from using me?

2006-09-25 06:17:24 · update #1

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Then you have the grounds for an annulment. Find out the laws in your state. Fraud is at the top of the list.

2006-09-25 06:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

yes.....if you are catholic and can show cause to the catholic church that this was not a valid marriage they will grant an annulment....tho i am not a catholic i have a dear friend who is and was in a similar situation(without a child) and she was granted an annulment.....good luck.....altho legally you need a divorce i think only the catholic church will recognize the annulment and not the govt

2006-09-25 06:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0 0

properly, no that is not favourite to have "secret" relationships. it is why they are observed as secret, reason they should not be occurring. there is different matters which incorporate your husband and he's picking to handle them by potential of "secretly" doing besides the fact that it is he's doing. style of cowardly. genuinely, the rule of thumb is "if i shouldn't see it, pay attention it or study it, you mustn't be doing it". so as that solutions the "secret" area. Now it's time to set some limitations with him. You frivolously clarify what you're expectancies are and ask him to stay as much as them purely as you do. attempt and be specific, adult males hate having to objective and do the wager artwork as quickly as we are imprecise with our emotions. you will desire to declare some thing like "i think betrayed once you are trying this and it is frightening. i don't prefer to be married to somebody who has secrets and techniques from me via fact i don't experience that that nurtures the relationship. i would not behave in that way and that i anticipate the same in return. in spite of what you experience my emotions are (jealousy, and so on.) my emotions are that i think betrayed and that is totally hurtful." Then pay attention to him. If he argues and tries to push aside your emotions, repeat them and permit him understand that those are emotions, you very own them, are entitled to them and you have expectancies from the marriage. he will the two care and love you sufficient to resign and then possibly bypass to counseling to unravel the matters, or he won't. If he would not, then you incredibly have a coarse option to make which for me it may well be separation till he knows which you're extreme approximately your limitations. Which by potential of how are functional limitations that help a relationship, not harm it the way his limitations (or lack thereof) are hurting the relationship. :)

2016-12-18 16:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by dlabaj 4 · 0 0

legal annullment- no
Catholic religion annullment- if you fill out a thick book of questions and its accepted by the Church

2006-09-25 06:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0 0

If you can let all of the married women know, and we will follow suit LOL

2006-09-25 06:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0 0

if he wants to divorce you then let him he is not worth the Griff and he pays for it and you don't want your child growing up in an un happy home think of her first....

2006-09-25 06:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by 2-ROCK 1 · 0 0

It could be possible, but I would get a good lawyer!

2006-09-25 06:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes. As long as you pay the church. They are after your money

2006-09-25 06:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by Kabu 5 · 0 1

nope...just a divorce

2006-09-25 06:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 6 · 0 0

Nope....sorry about that!

2006-09-25 18:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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