2006-09-25 05:54:43 · 13 answers · asked by syelark 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Indeed , no man is an island,,,,
2006-09-25 05:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by India 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Togetherness (being with others) is a human survival thing...we need it, whether its a partnership, family or being part of a team, these experiences with other people can be elating, and strengthen bonds which in the primordial forest would ensure survival, and in a different way they still do today.
Solitude (being alone) is useful if you want to take time out to know yourself and your mind, clarify your thoughts, think about things, relax, feel calm and quiet and at peace. It is not such a good survival technique to be alone, however, I personally value solitude a little more than togetherness.
But I think the worst kind of solitude, as someone said above, (and bullied people will tell you) is the feeling of loneliness when surrounded by many other people, and I believe it causes a pain in the 'soul' which can be unbearable.
2006-09-25 08:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by frostbitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that a balance between togetherness and solitude works best (for me, anyway). We humans are social animals and we do need the company of others. Solitude can also be treasured: taking time away from others often aids in deeper self-understanding and in appreciating others that much more.
2006-09-25 06:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by j14456um 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, for various reasons.
You can talk things over, try out your plans and ideas on someone else and get advice or comfort. As the old sayings go, two heads are better than one, and a trouble shared is a trouble halved.
Neurologists reckon that sociable people increase their practical intelligence, problem-solving ability and memory, as compared to loners.
Also it costs less in total for two people to live together than separately.
2006-09-25 06:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dramafreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, solitude is better. Togetherness implies no conflict.
2006-09-25 06:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by Wait a Minute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much, much better :)
Honestly I don't know what type of 'togetherness' you are referring to but I will tell you that no matter who you are... you need someone - even a total stranger you share your problems with and who listens back - to talk to. Someone you can call your own. Someone who goes out of their way with kindness to teach you, listen to you and share ideas. A person you can trust and depend on when you feel like turning your back on the world - because the world never turns its back on you. Believe that you can handle everything God gives you. He never gives more then you can handle. Never. Life is precious and the best way to spend it is with someone who loves you.
Sometimes it takes a stranger to make us feel alive - and you know that somewhere out there they are doing good deeds - or in my case they are doing what they love to do best; saving lives. Because my Hero is a Paramedic and a stranger I will never forget.
However, another feeling of solitude can come from actually being together and let me give you can insight: it is the worse emotion you can possibly feel: in my side of the story... I've lived with that burden for countless years. My family - all 13 people who live with me.... who make me feel so alone. I'm 16-years-old and just living in this home I've seen how big the world can be. I feel hurt because none of these people ever took the time to know me. And worse of all is having a father I can't call 'dad' because he was never there to encourage me and hug me to say he loves me. Never. So I spent these years wishing he looks at me and asks me if I'm okay. I'd rather the loneliness without someone then with someone. I try to make him proud but discovered he doesn't want to be proud of me. And probably set a goal to never look and smile to me.
Having said that, when I wake up at night all scared and alone, I let my mind wonder off and my Hero comes to life. His arm is my pillow as he whisper me to sleep. He saves me every time when I feel scared but he leaves - always. No matter when - never gives me a chance to thank him. I wish someday I can make him proud and let him know how much he means to me because for once in my life a father-like figure held me in his hands and kept me safe. I know deep down he was only doing his job but at the same gave me much more then he will ever know.
By the way, this is a good question. Brought tears to my eyes as it hit my heart...
Stay safe. - Maryam
2006-09-25 06:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by piercing integrity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Togetherness with the right person
2006-09-25 06:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by braveheart321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, providing you are suited for each other. Nice to have someone to talk to, to iron out your difficulties, and help you enjoy the good times...Good Luck, hope everything works out for you...
2006-09-25 05:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by mobileminiatures 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes 100%
2006-09-25 06:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not... I love being alone... I am woman hear me roar ! mew!
If you do not like being alone...then perhaps you are in bad company...
.... meaning YOURSELF ! If you aren't happy with yourself,,you certainly can't be happy with others...
2006-09-25 07:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both are required for a balanced life
2006-09-25 16:56:53 · answer #11 · answered by mochi.girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋