my oyfriend that i have been with for two years has recently told me that he will never marry me? he is a muslim indian guy. for two years i hhave taken care of him ,wahed his clothes fed him, let him use my car and now all of a sudden he doesnt want me as a wife ever, he is afraid of hurting his mother, he said.she does not understand what i have and all i have done for him for the past two years, i dont want to loose him i m in love with him? ihave been so depressed lately, i dont want to give up this fight , ilove this man what should i do?
2006-09-25 05:48:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl, you should move on. If he does not cherish you find someone who does. When he started dating you he knew about his regilion, so why did he wait 2 years. Muslims are not suppose to have sex out of marriage? Have you had sex? So I think that he is using his mother as a cop out. Move on !!!!! Trust me. Been there done that. Good luck. You have already lost the fight, leave him and win the war.
2006-09-25 05:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by Starr Light 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it the sacrificing and work you do that you would miss if he goes away? If so, ask him if you can continue to do what you've been doing for him even after he marries a suitable wife. Perhaps he'll keep you on as his servant. His wife probably won't mind getting out of all that work.
2006-09-25 12:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wants to be with you than he would let nothing get in the way of that. not even his mom's opinion. he's just using his mom as an excuse to mooch of you with out no chance of him having to commit.
2006-09-25 13:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by cocalot6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a mama's boy who doesn't hold the same ideals/values as you and you will always have a rocky relationship. start looking for something more suitable, rewarding and healthy.
2006-09-25 12:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by jami p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the point in living with a man who doesent want you anymore.
2006-09-25 12:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by tulip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his mom wants someone from his religion, and backgrounds...
If you have kids with this person it can cause lots of headaches with family and spiritual reason....
2006-09-25 12:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly_kisses81501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋