Ok i'm married but I sometime feel as I want a woman I look at females online like on bp or myspace. When I look at them a feel horny and sometimes I get so horny I have to release that urge, I hinted at my husband about it and he just say well if you get a girlfriend make sure she's hot so we(all 3) can have fun than he say I'm crazy for thinking that , but I just can't help it I get really horny we I see really hot sexy females and my Pusci start's to get wet and I can't help it but I still love men what should I do? help me! please I would love to get answer's from men and women and bi/lesiban women
2006-09-25 05:34:06 · 25 answers · asked by Latashia S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Being bi-, hetero-, or homo- sexual is hard-wired into our brains. The earlier you know, the earlier you will be comfortable with yourself.
Consider having a lesbian experiment (note the singular) before your husband gets involved. If it's just a visual thing that turns you on, then perhaps looking is all it is.
Just be safe. Be prepared to exchange health details before you start. Remember that ALL adults must be consenting so be prepared for when that consent ends.
2006-09-25 06:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is incredibly common and an awful lot of women either have the tendencies and do nothing about it or 'get into it' Log onto some sites, talk it through look at some of the movies and pictures and then decide, also a LOT of women find that there husbands approve/encourage it, as long as it is a physical thing not an emotional one. My recommendation, go for it, life is too short and if you never try how will you ever know what you are missing,
2006-09-25 05:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This temptation is misconstrued...you look at yourself and your husband with mirrors while making love will have the same effect...but much better for this is a real gift from God...Sex between a man and a woman through Marriage. STOP corrupting your mind with PORNOGRAPHIC
web sites....and other pornography....it's not just the pictures...the
whole agenda is Satan trying to screw you up! He is loose and running rampage across the world corrupting and destroying all he can...for the Lord is coming soon so Satan is working overtime with all his demons trying to destroy us from the inside out! Run and erase all the information like this from your computer, get on your knees and ask the Lord to help you overcome the images and the memories of these thoughts...do this every day....Read the Bible and you will find true joy, and your marriage will be blessed when you begin to accept the Word of God and begin to apply it to your life right now!
2006-09-25 05:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop hinting and just ask about it. Tell him that a friend came to you and your were sure what to say. Then ask him what he would do if you told him that you thought you might be bi-sexual. You could also wait until the middle of sex and then tell him that you want a woman also. Then if he has a problem with it you can just say that you thought that was what he wanted to hear. You never know he might be scared of telling you that he wants a three-some.
2006-09-25 05:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely normal to fantasize about other women and to get excited enough to release yourself. Maybe you should take your husband up on the 3 some and see if it is all you think it will be and then you will know if you are bi or not.
2006-09-25 05:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am bi & theres nothing wrong with it. actully theres plently of gay & bi people in this world so if u r, then u r. u can only b who u r & if u r atrcted 2 females then your ganna get moist when u c them. there isnt a switch 2 just turn it off. b true 2 yourself, & since your bf is willing 2 experament, i'd do so. i am married 2 a man & he love that i'm bi because we can go out & check out women 2gether. good luck sweetie.
2006-09-25 05:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by myfrogisaprince1211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married to a man, and I'm bi. We have had threesomes, and they are fun. But if you and your husband have jealousy issues, I would not recommend bringing in some strange to your bedroom. But they are VERY exciting!!! Good luck.
2006-09-25 05:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the female body sexy as well. If your husband is willing to try this out with you then I think that is wonderful. Just let him know that you are not trying to please one of his fantasies. That this is for your curiosity.
2006-09-25 05:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by shamogreen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As with most women that I know, this is normal. The difference is if you react to it physically. Good luck!! GaryT
2006-09-25 05:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you on that let me know what you come up with cause i love men but i dont know where these feelings come from
2006-09-25 16:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋