my husaband does not seem to care about anything except job. games and sleep.He cries when I ask anything of him.
2006-09-25 05:00:44 · 17 answers · asked by suggamomma_2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, then leave.
2006-09-25 05:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try talking to him first because if the two of you can work on this problem together it would definitely benefit the both of you in the long-run! Tell him how you're feeling, that there's more to life than work, playing games and sleeping! Tell him you're tired of participating in this marriage alone and you need him to show you a little deserved attention! ( Everyone should feel the love of their spouse!) Maybe try and get the both of you an appointment to see a marriage councilor! Last case scenario, after everything else has been tried then failed, I'd then say it would be time to leave and then at least you can say you made every effort to make the marriage work! GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-25 12:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by shelly_mo67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not the best solution to your problem. A heart-to-heart talk with him about how you feel can help you a lot in finding facts and solutions to your problem.
Ask him to tell you honestly if he still loves you for that matters a lot to make your marriage survive the tests of time. If he doesn't love you anymore, and nothing else can be done for you to win back his love for you, then that would be the most appropriate time for you to leave and let go. When there is no more love in the heart of even one of the husband and the wife, marriage is sure to fail. But when true love lives and dwells in the hearts of these two married persons, marriage is a sure success.
Search your heart and soul for the answers to your problem as soon as you have talked to him. With the answers you'd get, act according to what your heart and mind dictate... but act with right reasoning and judgment and you will never go wrong. All the best.
2006-09-25 12:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to get men to the doctor, but these could be symptoms of depression. It's possible that things could be better with a couple of appointments and a prescription for anti-depressants. It would at least be worth talking to a doctor before giving up.
2006-09-25 13:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And they ask why do married people stray? You should pull the plug from the game and try making up some of your own (like in the bed room!) Or if you can't beat him join him do some research on his job practice his game and kick his butt. Don't ask just do it make him interested.
2006-09-25 12:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by 0000sin549 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, I am the same way nowadays. Trust me, he is not trying to be a jerk. The sound of my girl's voice makes me shut down. I know that sounds rude, but it's mental and physiological. He doesn't want to face life with you.....work, sleep and games are his escape from you. It's called depression and he needs to be treated. You can stay and try to convince him to get help or leave him in your dust. I would get out of there.
2006-09-25 12:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him if he cares about you. If he says no then there is your answer. If he says yes then you need to find out why he doesn't show it. As for the crying, you cry when he ask anything from you. If he says anything then tell him that you wanted to see what would happen if you played him.
2006-09-25 12:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should seek couples therapy. Why we leave him when it looks like he needs your help! You sound very selfish... you should see why he is crying and see what you can do to help. Do you have kids? If you dont have any children and see that he is not the family man type then divorce. If you do have children than please do not. Think about the needs of your children and husband. You need to take care of your family.
2006-09-25 12:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't do anything but weep when you ask him to go to counseling, give him something to cry for,...leave him and see if that works. If he doesn't change, stay gone. Good luck.
2006-09-25 12:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by longhair140 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cries when you ask him something,then no don't leave get him a pacifier.
2006-09-25 12:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like what he is doing, then I would find someone more suited to you.
2006-09-25 12:17:16 · answer #11 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋