2006-09-25 04:56:47 · 11 answers · asked by dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be nothing but yourself. Don't try to be somebody you are not.
2006-09-25 04:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i'm sorry but these answers are really corny. Obviously you've tried to be yourself and it still hasn't worked. There's a difference between being popular and being liked. Being popular means you get to walk down that hallway and everyone notices you. They want to be your friend, only because it's the cool thing to do. Being liked means that people love your personality and want to be friends with you cuz they know you'll treat them fairly. If you want to be "popular" then rememebr that you can't let go of your old personality. Treat everyone equally, relax when you're around people, find a hobby, learn a new sport. These things will put you in common grounds with other people, and will broaden your perspective on things. Also, if you think your style in clothing isn't working for you, go to mexx or someplace preppy and change your style. But, most importantly, don't think that because you changed your clothes that people will start liking you better. Now for the girls...they most definitely don't want a macho jerk who talks about nothing but himself. You need to show a girl that nothing but her matters.....and most importantly....ONE AT A TIME! Don't be this huge player who jumps from one girl to the next. Care about her, and, yes, if you dare, flirt a little. Compliment her, hit on her ( A LITTLE BIT!!!). Don't be yourself completely, or else you might freak her out.
2006-09-25 12:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by luscious_ladie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident and interesting to talk to.
You can do this by imagining someone you know who is popular and to whom girls talk a lot, and visualise yourself becoming this person overnight. Just imagine that you are that person and eventually the person you see in your mind's eye will become you. Trust me, it works if you do it properly.
2006-09-25 12:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you make an effort to talk to them there not just gonna ignore you so tell a joke or make them laugh.. or use a cheesy pick up line then tell them you were kiddin its totally funny, then talk to them on a regular basis and who knows what will happen next good luck ps: dont change ur personality just be flirty n funny.
2006-09-25 13:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by playstp123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all,GET SOME DECENT CLOBBER,not that nerdy s hit.nice shirt,jumper,jeans,shoes,aftershave.then you have to act realy casual and have a laugh with them.make them laugh and start to work them.
2006-09-25 12:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by stoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just change ur sex and convert to a girl
can do this?
u r saying yes? o good
2006-09-25 11:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do you want to be popular? just be yourself and gurlz will notice that. dnt pretend to be something your not.
2006-09-25 12:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot really make anyone do anything. You can however ask her out though.
2006-09-25 16:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have self confindence
2006-09-25 11:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by atl_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cultivate balls
2006-09-25 11:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋