2006-09-25 04:43:30 · 15 answers · asked by nicey 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Girl i know the pressure of always being good, and when you step out of the good girl circle you mess up, just face up to it gurl that will at least prove that your women enouph to accept the boo boo, but dont make it look so bad, if your pregnant, your pregnant its not like they will disown you, they will help you regardless if you were being bad. At least something good will come out of your naughty side. But always remember you were the good girl virgin, but now your the good non virgin girl. Doesnt mean your bad just means you are doing bad things unless you feel otherwise, its your body.
2006-09-25 04:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are pregnant you're going to have to grow up quickly. Best place to start is by acting like an adult by facing this head on. Be pro-active. Find out for sure if you are. Figure out what your feelings are on it and then sit down with your parents. Tell them the facts. Tell them your plan. Ask them to support you in your plan.
Make sure you get pre-natal care asap.
I use to work with young mothers, aged 13 to 24. Your first major decision should be based on what's best for your baby - can you give it a home and a life it deserves by keeping it or by adopting it out? It is a difficult decision that will affect the rest of your life. If you decide on abortion you should also tell your parents - it is a very difficult decision to live with - you might need some counselling and lots of support after.
Good luck to you (both).
2006-09-25 11:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by family_matters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you just lost your "good girl" status. Might as well talk with some of the other black sheep of the family now that you're one of them. :)
You have to ask yourself why they're going to flip: Are you a teenager? Do you not know who the father of the baby is? Are you mentally/financially unable to care for your child? Are you not married? Figure out what the reason is that they're going to be so upset about it, and write a list of pros and cons to defend why being pregnant for you isn't such a bad thing after all.
2006-09-25 12:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them. If they really love you they will understand. And being pregnant doesn't make you a bad girl. Sometimes things just happen. Are you still with the guy? Is he going to stick around to help you our? If the answer is yes, great tell them all that to. If the answer is no, just explain that you may have made a mistake but you are going to have a baby and you need their love and support. Either they will give it or they won't. You have to be strong for yourself and the baby. Don't give up on your parents, give them a chance and they may surprise you.
2006-09-25 11:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by mystri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE sure that your pregnat dont have them freak out for nothing. If you are positive then have a nice family dinner with the lucky man, and slowly but calmly bring up the topic. Now i am going to assume that your a high school student, i have a suggestion whatever the result is, dont drop out. Also dont stress every one makes mistakes and this one is a big one but the it will be a mistake worth having.
2006-09-25 11:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by Fidget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got pregnant some people won't call you "the good girl" any more. Have you used a home pregnancy test to find out if you are? If in fact you are pregnant you will need to talk to your parents and your doctor to discuss what your options will be. It'll be hard but it's better to tell them now than to wait.
2006-09-25 11:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them after you are sure .i hope you plain on having the baby even if you are very young everyone has a right to life no matter how old the mother is i has a young mother i now have 5 children 4 that are grown and 1 i adopted my oldest is 31 years old i am 46 it all works out youll see and con grats
2006-09-26 23:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by momas1959 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything will be okay. Just tell your family, and hopefully they will be there to support you no matter what you decide. That's what families are for! Getting pregnant is not the worst thing you could have ever done. Good luck.
2006-09-25 11:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out definitely first. Don't try hiding it if you are. You will need all of the help and advice you can get. If you are, you need to get your mum on a quiet private occassion and tell her first. I expect she will be upset and you will have a lot of things to talk through but it has to be done. Just make sure first though before you do this to her.
2006-09-25 11:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by angeldust 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all - dont react at all until you find out if you are 100% pregnant...why cause problems when there doesnt have to be one? unless you feel that you have no one to turn to, ask a close friend/family member and tell them what is going on so they can help you out with where you go from there...realize that if you are pregnant, they are going to find out eventually, unless you choose abortion. either way, if they love you, which they seem to, (their your family!!!) they will be upset at first MAYBE, and then will be overjoyed to welcome a baby into the family...good luck either way!
2006-09-25 11:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by *mommy to two* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋