I have just gotten married last Saturday. My husband, my co-worker & I share the same office... but whenever my husband is not in the room, my co-worker is all over me, touching & caressing the sensitive parts of my body. I could not control myself sometimes, & I give in to his wet kisses. Admittedly, he's hot, & we dated one time, but now that I'm married, I feel very guilty, though aroused with what we're doing. Thank God my trustful husband is not suspecting anything. What must I do (we're seeing each other everyday, & I am sometimes getting tempted to give myself to him due to his all-day foreplaying tactics)?
2006-09-25 04:29:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You weren't ready for marriage in the first place and it's a matter of simply telling your co-worker to STOP.
But see, now you're stuck. Since you allowed him to do as much as you "claim" has happened... when you do tell him to stop, he's gonna mention that you never seemed to mind in the past, and will probably threaten to tell your husband about your office activities.
If you're really sincere about all of this, you're gonna have to tell your husband everything, before your co-worker does... and you will have it even worse to start with if he does.
Or if your husband happens to walk in on you two... hopefully, there are no heavy or sharp objects in your office.
2006-09-25 04:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad as this might sound, you need to get an anullment. You are not ready to be married. To have problems with fidelity this early on means that you are not committed to the other person 100%.
If you can't find the courage to divorce/annull your marrige, then be firm about to your coworker about the seriousness of your marrige and that if he touches you again you will press charges.
There is no happy ending to this. Your spouse will most likely find out. Either now or later, but they will find out. Staying married will damn near difficult and almost impossible. If you want to stay married you will have to sacrifice do whatever your spouse needs you to do in order to trust you again.
2006-09-25 13:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out if the co-worker is worth the loss of your husband and think about that instead of the co-worker. Once you break the trust of marriage it is hard to fit and sometimes can't. You need to decide what is more important and stick with it. If you choose your husband you need to let the co-worker know and stay away from him.
2006-09-25 04:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get your husband to have an open relationship. tell him that you're a slutt and always will be and if he loves you he'll go buy you some condoms to use with your other men. my hubby didn't go for this, though. Luckily, i have been able to lower the intensity of crushes on other men. Sounds to me like the other guy is doing just to mess with your head.
2006-09-25 04:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by saveit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u still like this other guy... WHY ARE YOU MARRIED?! ur only hurting your husband and makin urself look bad by being the one charged as guilty for cheating! u need to tell ur husband, and u definitely need to tell that other guy to back off and treat you with some respect. ur married now. and u dont need to be put in such a hard situation.
2006-09-25 04:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by demoniclilangel_666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very tricky- hubby coulda set this up to see if you would cheat- if friends-very possible- if not, hubby coulda paid him to do it- money changes stuff sometimes- If you truly love your husband- let your co worker know- that you think that behavior should cease effective immediately- otherwise- you might not have same hubby after you get caught- by him or another person who can't keep lips shut- Be careful- Be Loyal- Be Truthful w/ urself and ur hubby- Good Luck!
2006-09-25 04:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by sawgirl513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, this is a huge problem. Why are you letting him do these things? Obviously you are attracted to him and you shouldn't have gotten married if you couldn't be faithful. Stop allowing this to happen and enjoy your husband.
2006-09-25 04:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need help. Great way to be for a newly wed...already drooling over someone else. Looks like you are another soon to be statistic looking for a place to happen.
2006-09-25 04:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by jvano35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have already cheated on your husband. Hopefully he will eventually catch you and dump your *** as quickly as possible.
Oh by the way.........you are the real meaning of what it is to be called slutty.
2006-09-25 04:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by financialguyhere 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
su ck his c o c k
stop being a little girl go for it
u know u want that naughty side to come out
and if he cant get it out of u
i can
email me for more details
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2006-09-25 08:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋