There are some aspects of my marriage I wish were different, but I have always been willing to accept things as they are. We are millionares now, we started humbly. I love my wife deeply, I wouldn't ask this if I didn't. If nothing comes of this young girl, no harm done, but If she makes more advances, a part of me as a man will feel regret if I spurn her.. My youth was so volatile, I needed warmth and guidance, my parents were not there in this sense. My wife was. We are still intimate, she was there when needed most. We aren't needing now, she will still hurt if I tell her, but I might be bitter later if I let this young girl away, despite the fact it really isn't my wife's fault I feel this way. Wife's pregnant 4 months. Naturally, I won't do anything to my marriage during pregnancy, my fear is the girl will wait for this time to pass.
2006-09-25 04:27:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Man... this young girl sees you for your $$$!!! I pray that you see her for what she really is... a leech, a GOLD-DIGGER! If you fall for her evil ways, this is exactly what's going to happen.
1. She's going to start demanding you buy her this and you pay for that.
2. She's going to threaten to tell your wife, if you don't.
3. She's going to up her demands to a car, then a furnished apartment, then a house, CASH...
4. Once she has enough money, property, vehicles, bled you dry, or you call her on her bluff; she'll move on to another 'host' or victim.
Do yourself and your family right, and just leave that young gal alone. You love your wife deeply but you are willing to rip her world apart by giving in to the woes of some harlot? Part of the responsibilities of being a man is to stand up for and protect your family. What would be the bigger regret... you successfully ignoring the temptations of a 'hoe' (I know she knows you're married) or defending the sanctity of your marriage?
2006-09-25 04:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you really want is someone to say its ok for you to cheat on your wife.
Lots and lots of people freak out when their wife is pregnant and get a desire to have one last fling - however it would be more productive to work on your relationship - if the romance is lacking work on that. Help your wife feel more womanly = even when she is pregnant but especially after and your relationship will deepen.
If you run off for a younger woman - even as a casual thing you will be robbing yourself and your wife of lots of things. The girl is atractive cause she is new and different and has no responsibiltiies but if you cheat on your wife when you are supposed to be happy or just after the pregnancy it would devestate her. I have to say most men are very bad liars when it comes to covering up affairs - they let the little details slip and surely you wouldnt want to hurt her.
You're having a wibble before the baby. Go home buy your wife flowers give her a massage and share a long bubble bath together. Remember everything you have together.
Remember you will both have passed up opportunities in your decision to be together, would you accept "i might regret it" as an excuse for her to be unfaithful"?
Also children are devestated by their parents unfaithfulness and lying , it scars their view of men. Would you like your daughter to think that what men do when you are pregnant or just given birth is to run off with a much younger woman???
2006-09-25 04:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Bebe 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on your wife because you never know what the young girl have, she could give you an std or even A.I.D.S and if something like that do happen, you put your wife and child at risk. Now is that really worth it? Just a little advice, when a younger women knows you are married and have money nine times out of ten she is just using you as her sugar daddy because she knows that she can get anything out of you. Some women play the same games as men do. Just think before you react and please think with the right body part.
2006-09-25 04:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by loveable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got doubts about every aspect of your personal life. I think you need some time alone to work out how you want to spend the rest of your life. Is the girl attracted to you or your money? Sorry if that sounds harsh. I think you've missed a big chunk from your life and are regretting it now. You seem to have gone straight into a marriage without any fun before that. Your wife will be the one who hurts most,if you decide you need to leave,but she will survive with your support. If you have thoughts about one girl, the seeds of doubt about your marriage have already been sown. Remember,you have to be happy too. Good luck
2006-09-25 04:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? Ok does this girl KNOW you're married and that your wife is pregnant? You don't WANT a girl who would try to ruin your family...can't believe you'd even ask that. Your wife has been there for you....you can't betray her. If the girl waits until your wife has the baby, who cares? Then you have a newborn infant at home. Don't do it...the girl is probably after your money. Your WIFE loved you even when you were nothing and dirt poor.
2006-09-25 04:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 yrs and 4 months pregnant, through thick and thin and this is a "question" that you have to ask? What are you THINKING???? Are you that weak or have absolutely no brain in your head?You said you wouldn't ask this question if you "didn't" love your wife? How about you wouldn't even be thinking of "anything" like this if you did "love" your wife!! You egotistical "jerk"! You know how many "men" out there would "love" to be in your shoes? And you're willing to give it all up!Here's one for you daddy, that little baby that's your son or daughter isn't even here yet and you're thinking of "cheating" on it's "mommy" before its even born!{ I hope that hurt!} The guys who are like you will tell you ,go for it. The ones who are real "men" will tell you what a "A**" you really are, And what did you expect to hear from the "ladies" ?Well, you're getting your 5 min. of attention, I hope your enjoying it! Loser!!!!
2006-09-25 05:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by noditz57 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a "woman" and a "Lady" in your wife that has been there for you and is a wonderful wife...Then there is a girl out there that has been nothing to you and probably only wants your money or what she thinks you can give her. See her for what she is and run, run away fast...You best hope she does not wait around for you, you have a family to worry about and a wife that you need to adore, respect and HONOR! Dang, I am jealous of you for the wife you have and if you screw it up, do me a favor and let me know, that is the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. You are stupid for even being willing to even consider throwing a Corvete out for a huffy bike...
2006-09-25 04:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for permission to have an affair. You already know this is wrong. This is a girl who has no real bearing on your life. She doesnt mean anything. Your ego has gotten a boost from her advances, thats natural. But your life is your family, your wife. Be the man you sound like you are and stay true. If your marraige needs a boost then discuss it with your wife and work on it.
2006-09-25 04:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a millionaire but not very bright. Did it ever occur to you that the young girl might want you for your money?? You have a good life why mess it up. Marriage is give and take. The young girl is only there to mess up your situation. So stay true to your wife and yourself. The young girl spells TROUBLE!
2006-09-25 04:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pull yourself together man! You have so much right now...more than most people and you're willing to risk it all because of LUST! 1 night of great sex =/= eternal happiness. I guaranfreakingty you that you will regret it when your wife finds out, gets a divorce, takes half your estate, AND gets custody...all for 1 nights worth of sex....quit being such a wuss and realize that you have a great life....and if you have problems in your marriage, don't ***** about them and try and find a way to fix them through counseling, etc.
Anyway, you're probably not even serious so whatever.
2006-09-25 04:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by Rivrav 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋