ok here I go I am bi and is seriously thinking of becomming full lesbian. I have has a crush on this woman for 7 months now. I have made 2 attemps to letting her kinda know I was into her when we first meet. She was with someone at the time and so was I. Just recently I left my significate other and is moving on with my life. She knows all about it. She just came up to me the other day and said she broke up and is happy. Has the place to her self. I was just wondering if she is trying to hint some thing to me and if I should say something. Any advice ?
2006-09-25 04:21:48 · 22 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would just hang out as friends for now. You really don't want to be her rebound chick. Be some one she can be cool with. And then see if she is the kind of person you want to be with, and take it up a knoch. But don't throw yourself on her unless she makes the first move. But trust me on the rebound thing. She might drop you the next week.
2006-09-25 05:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hesitate!! Don't wait 30 days like someone else said. Ask her to go to dinner with you. Not a date just a friendly get together. If she goes great you can take it from there. Good Luck! Just what ever you do don't be "TOO" pushy. you could drive her away. Take it slow and see what happens. But definitely take the chance!
2006-09-25 11:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by tjinjapan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't become full time lesbian just like someone who is gay can't decide to be straight. You will still be bisexual, you just may not be practicing.
Also, you didn't indicate if your or her significant other was male or female. Come out and say you want to go out with her on a date. I don't think girls get offended like insecure closed minded guys when someone of the same sex asks them out.
2006-09-25 11:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by boatguy4boatgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make up your mind what you really want in life as far as relationships,because by being bi- I'm sure you are playing with people emotions because you can't decide what you want.If you want a man take a man.If you want a woman take a woman.So before you assume somebody is like that you better check into it,before someone get's hurt.MAKE UP YOUR DAMN MIND!!!!
2006-09-25 11:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Da..KINGizHeRe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good friends i would say somethin to her ,, I went through that stage tooo ,, me and my girlfriend did some expermenting it was fun but then we both relized the dating part wouldn't work out ...so its normal for girls to be attracted to eachother and not be gay ,, try it and see if you are comfrontable with it ,, but whatever you do talk to this girl before you make a move ,, you dont want to freak her out if she doesnt feel the same ...GOOD LUCK >>
2006-09-25 11:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's into you to give it a go what the worse that could happen Good luck X
2006-09-25 12:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by charlie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please find yourself and your purpose in life before entering into a relationship of any kind.
I encourage you to find a group or church that studies the Bible and the life of Jesus and learn how God loves you, what He has done for you, and what your obligations are to Him.
God Bless your Week!
2006-09-25 11:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you see her or talk to her say you want to catch up sometime she'll either get your hint or you will find out if she did hint to you when you do catch up. Hell when it comes down to it you have to take what you want not just wait around for it or them to come to you. good luck sweetie.
2006-09-25 11:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a good time to hang out and see what happens, watch movies together and even if nothing further happens you will most likely gain a great close friend out of it.
2006-09-25 11:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by KellyJeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not. That's just a piece of normal everyday socializing conversation.
2006-09-25 11:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by mcurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋