ive been talkin 2 this 1 guy we was hitting it off great. then a mutal friend sent me all this info on this guy. bad info something to really start some drama. in this convo i stood up for this guy as the friend was trying to slander him. well now this guy has turned against me. i have the proof that in the convo i didnt say anything that i wouldnt ask or told him. i shouldnt bother really due to if this guy wont even give me a chance to defend my self. its an automatic guilty verdict. someone help me please here! i should say to heII with it, leave drama alone. but 4 some reason it really bugs me that someone i grew fond of thinks badly of me...when all i did was intercept the info from our friend, w/o passing judgement. what should i do???i really do like him!!!
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2006-09-25 04:02:01 · 5 answers · asked by Sugar_Plumzz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let the dust settle around this issue. He has struck out against you out of embarrassment, not any reason to hurt you.
Can you find out why the person is spreading hate on this guy? Is she/he saying that bad things were done to her or her family, or is it just gossip?
Also, is it possible that some part of it is true and your guy doesn't want to change his behavior? It's bad enough to be in the wrong, but sometimes people keep that out of sight and then don't even want to change it. If he doesn't come back or won't see you, you can conclude that at least part of what was told to you was true, unfortunately.
2006-09-25 04:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! You don't need the drama. If he won't hear you out and let you explain yourself, then he isn't worth it. Sounds like he knows he's guilty. Bad boys are fun...but in the end, they aren't good for anything but sex.
2006-09-25 11:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by kb'sgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on cause you said it yourself drama. Life is to short for all of that. that is just an example of a future with him , Sorry but I do think you deserve better.
2006-09-25 11:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can't listen to your side and trust that you are telling the truth then you deserve better and you need to move on.
2006-09-25 11:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a few days to calm down and see if you can talk to him again.
2006-09-25 11:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋