I dawned on me because in the relationship that I am in his mother and sister don't want us together. Thet resent me in everyway. In other words they won't deal woth him because of me. Jealousy plays a huge role in the last relationship not just from me but from the other girl (ex friend). I believe to this day she wanted what I had witht he other guy (guy included). She fed him lines after we broke up. I now know why he didn't write me while in germany. She was the reason I think she took full advantage of his vulnerabiliy being that he was homesick and hurt over the breakup. I know this because he made his feelings known. Please no nasty remarks, show some respect ok. Thanks in advance.
2006-09-25 03:10:10 · 7 answers · asked by friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, by the way his mom and sister tell him that they like me but the fact thet they can't stand me always comes back to me in the form of gossip from others. They trash me anyway that they can. I always thought that they would be happy he found a woman that doesn't drink, smoke no drugs. I do everything from house work to paying bills. I'm even there for them if they need me. I have an attitude and I have had my share of bad moments with them but that's how it is with family you butt heads every once in a while. But his mom and sister they take it to a whole new level.
2006-09-25 03:16:01 · update #1
This isn't about the break up itself it's more about the girl in between and the inlaws behavior it sucks but then again what can one do but avoid them I guess. I just want to see if sabotage is in fact played upon that' s all.
2006-09-25 03:25:55 · update #2
Give me some signs to look for. Much appreciated. I want be ready for what ever comes my way I don't trust my mother-n-law pr her daughter. Me and my boyfriend have already come to an understanding on this subject. I just want to know what to look for just in case.
2006-09-25 03:28:38 · update #3
Trinity02, I know just how you feel, when you are really in love with someone and the people around you are jealous or just plain hurtful or hateful. There is some signs of when someone is trying to break-up your good thing, I mean like let's say they may have over heard a conversation between you & your guy and then all of a sudden he is acting like he knows something about you that you didn't tell him or if it is something that is not just true at all.
See you have to remember one thing, always I mean always never take the word of anyone against your mate, the same thing ishould go for him about you. People will always want to come between two people who are good together, because misery loves company. If you want your guy, you need to sit him down and tell him that you love him, you are with him, not his family members, so it does not matter what they think, feel or say, the only think that should matter is you & him, If he wants to really be with you, he will understand what it is you are telling him, and he will be there for you & with you but, if he continues to believe them over you then there is something else going on, and may be you two can talk you know?
I hope this has help you somewhat, Good Luck okay......
Here are a few things to look for when they may be on some bull sh!t...
If all of a sudden they want to be your friend, you know being all nice to your face.
Or if they have a new female friend just hanging around when ever you come around, then they are trying to hook him up with the new female...
If they are having like a family cook-out or get together and want him to come without you....
Those are a few things I can think of off the top of my head if I think of some more I will share them with you okay? Again Good Luck...............
2006-09-25 03:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First don't put anything past a chick. We can be so hateful and vindictive sometimes. If she wants what you got and thinks she can get it she will most likely try. Now his sister and mom diff story. They probably just think they know what's best for him and think you are not it. If you care enough prove them wrong. Just by being loving and caring and respectful. That is if you care for him enough to do that if not just let it ride. to much aggravation. life is short
2006-09-25 03:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by oneluv1169 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you think you being sabotaged , you are. Talk to your boyfriend about and make sure he understands whats going on . The two of you could actually get closer trying to fend off the saboteurs.
2006-09-25 03:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by joy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up then there isnt a relationship to sabotage i think you should find a real man that loves you
2006-09-25 03:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely clarify each little thing to him declaring the way you freaked out because he so warm searching and also you're only lovable... possibly to him you're extra then only lovable so do not panic no extra wait and be conscious what he tells you... He ought to like you or he would not favor extra of you!
2016-11-23 20:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime i feel in my gut thT thay are see eachother becouse he knows everything thate and her are doing.it like she is make me look bad.and when she is on ths side of town he stop comeing around and her acks wierd when i text him she say thing like he dp i beleabe that thay ate seeing onesnother could i be right?
2015-05-14 00:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Marketta 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey there, i think taht all ur doubts r in their place.
tell him honestly what u feel(just wrote).
if u really love him fight to win him back
2006-09-25 03:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by mimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋