I am already 18 yet my parents still don't want me to have a girl-boy relationship. The problem is that I had disobeyed them so many times, i had a lot of boyfriends when i was still in highschool but all of them are just puppy love but now i think i am really in love with this man aged 19, both of us are still studying in college. We dated secretly and I am so afraid that somebody who knows me might see us and will report to my parents about us..! i don't want to lose this guy because in him I feel secured and tHat I really feel his Love and sincerity to me..! what is the right thing that I am going to do.!
My parents can't understand me, especially my father,no matter how hard I tried to convince them that I will still focus on my study even if I have a boyfriend.
2006-09-25 03:10:01 · 3 answers · asked by UniQueHeAvEn23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some parents think that they can control their child's every move because kids allow them to do so.. What you need to do is tell your parents about him, no matter how mad they get. If you continue to lie to them and let them believe that you don't have a boyfriend then they'll think that they can control you forever. Don't be rude about it, but let me know what you can in fact juggle having a boyfriend and school at the same time..your grade will reveal the truth...Stop giving in to them or your going to be become your parents want you to be....not yourself...I know you love them and don't want to disappoint them but this is your life and they wont stop loving for having a boyfriend...
Good luck and be strong.
2006-09-25 03:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to your problem. My parents are kinda strict too and they always say not to have bf first. I know that I'm responsible enough to have bf. But because they dont want me to have bf, i secretly had dates with some guys and I think I fell in love on the idea of having a bf not on the person himself!!
Anyway, try to act mature enough and show your parents that you are old enough to have such relationship. Then introduce your bf to your parents to formally show that you guys are serious about each other.
2006-09-25 10:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by cutiegreyt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents are going to have to realize that you are up in age and they should let you talk to somebody. I would understand if you were 15 or something then Hell No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But your 18 and you should just talk to your parents and see can you get you trust back.
2006-09-25 10:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Aletha l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋