ok well i asked a question i thikn it was friday about my hubby going to a srip club, well we talked and i called the number he got....it was the real number. NOW he's telling me that it's my fault that he went to a club because i dont "give him enough"which is complete and uter bull spit. So i took my daughter and left! well last night he called me all drunk telling me how sorry he was and how much he needed me and how big of a mess up this whole situation was. HOWEVER when i spoke to him this morning he acted as if everything was fine. Should i try to work this out? or should i not continue to waste my time on this guy..when i talked to the stripper she said that he told her he was single and looking for some action....
2006-09-25 03:08:33 · 11 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do u really have to ask. if he's pickin up strippers ur in trouble, lady!
2006-09-25 03:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Danigirl, this sounds harsh, but he is a liar and he wants to make you feel guilty for his behavior. Don't go back yet and maybe not at all, only you know all the details, but you do have a daughter to consider. Let him miss you for a while and see if he is willing to change his ways. His going to a strip club is his fault, his getting the number of a stripper is his fault, his behavior is his fault, not yours, so don't fall for that. Until he is man enough to own up to the fact that it is his fault, you do not need to even consider going back.
2006-09-25 03:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to know that everything is NOT fine. You have every right to leave him. He is eligible for your forgiveness IF and only IF he is truly sorry for looking for sex behind your back. It is your decision, but don't let this slip by. If he gets away with this cheating behavior once, there WILL be a second time. By the way, saying that you do not put out enough is an insulting, degrading, and low thing to say. If that was the case, which apparently it is not, he should handle it by talking to you and not looking for sex behind your back. Good luck, and don't let this man ruin your life.
2006-09-25 03:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a real loser. First of all, he has no respect for himself or you in going to strip clubs. Second, a drunken apology doesn't count - he probably didn't mean it. Third, you have a daughter - for her safety and protection, you need to stay far away from this man. Move on and end all contact - you deserve better!!
2006-09-25 03:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the striper said it all when u asked her what he said take ur daugther and run once a cheat always a cheat..don't put urself and ur daugter through a live time of bull..neither of u deserve it good luck oh by the way drunk's talk is cheap..good luck
2006-09-25 03:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by bgreneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your already out so just stay out the girl already told you he was trying to sleep with her and telling her he was single what a ******....Youve done the right thing by leaving and i wouldnt go back,what makes you think he has changed cause you left for one day??Ohh please he is a dog and a cheater leave that looser before he brings you home a std...good luck
2006-09-25 03:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite the girl to have a 3sum, then tie them both up and leave for the help to find.
2006-09-25 03:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsay W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The stripper has no reason to lie to you.
2006-09-25 03:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by shellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow ur heart!
2006-09-25 03:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out you don't need that you shouldn't have to ask anyway
2006-09-25 03:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by moonlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋