I have a few girls that i am seeing right now, none of the relationships are serious and the girls know this but sometimes they want more! I wana give them more but find it hard to choose which girl is gonna be the right one for me. I also find temptation to hard to resist. If i was with a girl i loved then i would be ok. I'm only 21 should i continue with my wondering ways or try and hold on to one?
2006-09-25 02:34:24 · 13 answers · asked by Mickel B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your only 21,play play play!! when u find the right girl u will know,worry in 10 years time.
2006-09-25 02:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Chocoholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole point of seeing people is so that you can see other people, but if some of these girls want more then you have to do the right thing by them and be up front.Either drop all of them (but tell them and dont just ignore them) or decided which one you want to be with. No offence if you find temptation like that hard to resist your quite weak and also just a warning (hopefully your doing this already) but if you are sleeping with these girls aswell, make sure you are being safe. They dont need to be led on to find out they have a disease from you aswell.
2006-09-25 02:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Carole T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If none of these girls are really doing it for you, then theres no point trying to settle down with one of them. to give up you're wandering ways as you put it, you've got to be prepared to commit and you're going to find it hard to commit unless you're in love with someone. But I think you're kind of in a catch 22 situation here. You can't truly become intimate and close to someone when you're seeing other girls too. How will you have the time for one thing? One of the girls you're seeing could be really special but when you're seeing other girls too, you might never have the chance to see that unless you give her more than you're giving her right now. My advice to you is this. You need to decide what you want and stick to it. If you want to find somebody you can commit to and maybe even settle down with, you've got to give up the wandering and concentrate on finding someone special who you want to be with. In order to do this, get rid of all the girls you're seeing. If you aren't ready to commit yet, then carry on with the girls you're seeing and have fun wandering for th enext few years. However, you're only 21 now but in the next few years you'll find that everyone starts getting married and setteling down. I'm only 22 and two of my friends are getting married already.
2006-09-25 03:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
21 is a great age play the field have some fun. Get to know you and what you want. There is loads of time for settling down have loads of fun first !!! x
2006-09-25 02:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
21? Don't worry at all- carry on playing the field and enjoy your youth while you still have some left! Just stay safe, and make sure no one gets hurt. Have fun!
2006-09-25 02:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sitting Still 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live life to the full while you're still young. don't get tied down too soon. learn about life and do plenty of travelling. 28-30 is about the right age to settle.
2006-09-25 02:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by darius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't promise any of them anything as none of them are right for you. You haven't met Miss Right yet believe me when you do you will know.
2006-09-25 02:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by muffymermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying out the waters - you have the rest of your life to settle down.
2006-09-25 02:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by Ben W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying and just go along, you'll know when the right one comes along..
2006-09-25 02:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Norman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find the right one they are not like pets just human beings
2006-09-25 02:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by scott j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋