Just meet a guy who my friend thinks that we would be well suited. We seam to have a lot in common. But the only thing is I don’t find him attractive at all. Should I give it a go and see what happens, Do you think that you should feel madly in love when you first meet our should it grow from friends to lovers. I just don’t want to hurt him and tell him down the road that I don’t like him at all. Am I kidding myself?
2006-09-25 02:32:51 · 13 answers · asked by ABBYGIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give him a try. You might be surprised.
2006-09-25 02:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone falls in love in the same way, so i think your worrying over nothing just because your friend thinks that your suited for each other doesnt mean shes right, just take your time to get to know this guy dont rush as they say the world wasnt buit in a day. Why don't you start out as firends and see where it goes, dot over anylise it just have fun and go with the flow, Its possible that it may or may not work out either way you have made another freind, just dont feel like your forced to go out with him because your friend says so dont feel pressurised at the end of the dy its your decision, but take it slow and see how it goes. good luck
2006-09-25 10:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time, it is better to be friend and then move on up if you see the need to in time. It is nice to hear that your friends think that he is a nice guy ,but the main thing is what you think, since you are the one in this. Follow your heart cause that would not stair you in the wrong direction, it is only you who can decide that. Good luck.
2006-09-25 09:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by simlpeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you might want to do is stop and go with your gut feeling. What is it telling you? Is this right or wrong?
If it is wrong, then just walk away or tell the guy you just want to stay friends.
If you feel it's right, the attraction might come later. I know with my boyfriend, I thought he was cute at the beginning but now I think he is one of the most beautiful men I know.
Always follow your heart and gut feeling. It usually doesn't steer you wrong.
Hope everything works out for you!
2006-09-25 09:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try. u should always be with a person that likes which means they always there for u! u might feel attractive to him later on as u guys get to know each other a little better.
2006-09-25 09:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmien D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let it grow....friends to lovers....that's the best idea. This way anyone gets hurt.....Because you only foccus his external appearence. Try to get to know him...and don't think about dating...just enjoy the moments....the talk, the dance...or whatever you do together...you see that you'll find great things about him...then you'll decide if you'll stat something or not....Good luck...
2006-09-25 09:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never judge someone because of their looks. My boyfriend isn't all that attractive and you couldn't find a more sweeter, caring guy. Give people a chance.
2006-09-25 09:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and see what happens between you two . . .the worse thing that could happen is that you don't get along with each other . . .Just take a chance and see what happens
2006-09-25 09:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by techgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..why not give more time and space for both of you?
perhaps...that time...you only realise you like him??
you would not know...ok? well....just try...if things really could not work out...then...tell the truth to him...
2006-09-25 09:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by yuft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not attracted to him at all then let it go, it wouldnt be fair to either of you, you have to have some attraction or there wouldnt be much of a realtionship
2006-09-25 09:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by kitty_pink_fur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋