I now think that I should always protect the girl I love and help her. How to get started?
Say, she was being disturbed and a few boys kept throwing her things all over, hiding her things and let her running all over like crazy. What should I do?
How can I stop those boys? What impression should I make? Thank you.
2006-09-25 02:30:56 · 13 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first off , do not think that tryingot play the role of barney Bad ash will stop this from happening. It may well lead ot you getting in far over your head.
Second ,sounds ot me you have allowed stuff like this to take place and turned the other cheeck.Understandable - since you are not the one being harrassed why get involved.
But when you take a stand and try to do this girl a favor and protect her from those guys , First - make sure this is what she wants done. Some girls like that kind of attention .
Second - make sure you can back up what you start.If you cant handle the guys turned their attention on you then why get it.
Third - if you want to help her BUT do not want to face those first two issues , then tell someone older who can step in and use the power they have to help her.
Never belief that using force will fix an issue , take a look at some of the things people have TRYED to force on you and how it turned out.If the answer is less then favorable , then you may just find that there are more ways to solve and issue the nviolence.
2006-09-25 02:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Above all be mature and sensible. Do not invite a fight, this could back fire and you could be injured or killed. Many things change the answer to this question. How old are these boys? 12? 16? 22? At 12 go up to them tell them to leave her alone, if they laugh or taunt you. You may have to deck someone or get an adult involved. 16 comment about leaving her alone and again get an adult involved. 22 ask them to leave her alone, if no response call the police. Unfortunately you alone against 3 or 4 or more other guys is a foolish fight. Unless you have a black belt in Karate you can not win. Sometime guys do this for attention from the girl. Sometimes to see how much they can tick you off. Try putting her things in one bag with a zipper or closure of some kind then if they take her bag this is a criminal offense and you can stand your ground.
2006-09-25 02:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you stop hanging around where those 'boys' are and find another place to hang out. She might be "disturbed" but that is no reason for you to get into the middle of it. If it's at school, go to the principal's office and report the matter. Don't worry about the impression. Tell the girl you are sorry for what they did and ask if she's ok. The tell her, why don't we walk together and maybe they won't do that stuff any more. Godloveya.
2006-09-25 02:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, i would do what u could to help her during one of these episodes without putting either of u in danger and then you could go to the nearest authority figure and tell them whats going on. tell her parents, principal, teacher etc... talk to her and give her your support and say how very sorry u are for not taking action before now. walk with her when u can and intervene with the boys if possible. taking a stand beside her will show her u love her and make u feel better about yourself too. decide ahead of time what u want to say to these boys but remember getting hurt doesn't help anything just report it if talking to them wont work.
2006-09-25 02:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all good you know you're a coward.Second thing is when you stand up for your girl, on your first fight you will lose so get ready. Third, she will see how brave you was to take that a** whuppin' and know that you're a pit bull at heart.Tip: If she helps you fight she's the one, if not you might think about letting her go.
2006-09-25 02:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by thinkaboutit2day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the best chance to impress. You are lucky to have it.
Kick the bad boys. If you beat them, she'll like you.
Even if you get beaten, she would be impressed that you care so much for her and she'll like you.
So go ahead, its a win-win situation.
2006-09-25 02:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off grow some balls then get up and let them know who is boss tell them to stop it and if that does not work then kick the sh*t of them always does the trick
2006-09-25 02:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by jem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach them aggressively
2006-09-25 02:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by bwet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
calm down dont do anything rash you have to tell someone older than you or the cops .
2006-09-25 02:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by ROBIN F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kick their ***, and if you get beat up, ah well it's only pain.
2006-09-25 02:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋