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What can you do to "repay"?
What can you do to "repay"?
Say, earlier this day you saw the girl you like being disturbed by a few boys - and you just sat there doing nothing (due to fear of the gossips following if you help her). Now, you realised that you have just done one of the biggest mistakes and you would like to "retrieve" the impression that she has on you.

What would you do? (Except giving flowers.)

2006-09-25 02:17:19 · 3 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Social Science Psychology

3 answers

You can talk to her and apologise for not stepping up. Don't defend your actions, it will just be a lame excuse and it will not make you look any better than you do right now. As far as your wanting to "repay" I'd say pay it forward, next time you witness something like this, act! Remind yourself of how you felt after this experience. We all fail, we all hesitate, we all screw up, but taking past experiences and learning from them, makes us grow and establish wisdom. Your conscience is a built-in warning system; be glad when it hurts you, be very afraid when it doesn't.

2006-09-25 04:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by not my own 2 · 0 0

As it is always "easy" telling others what to do, in life, but not helping them in the long
run, just buy and read a Scientology booklet about Conditions in life, or just buy +read
the Book : Introduction to Scientology Ethics. You will find out "what" on your own!
Thus, you will always be the master of yourself, in life!!!! (trust me!)
Ciao.....John-John.
PS. Now she might not trusting you anymore or not considering you as her mate.
You've got to make amends, to regain her confidence on you!
You've got to make unusual deeds over her, beyond the normal course of life...!
What ??? Read the Book!
Bye.....!

2006-09-25 09:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by John-John 7 · 0 1

I would confront her.
Tell her exactly what went through your mind and apologize for not handling the situation the way you wanted to.
I am sure she will appreciate your honesty!!!
Good luck

2006-09-25 09:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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