2006-09-25 01:56:37 · 13 answers · asked by mrs sexy lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
or have i just married the wrong guy i fell like it is just him in our relationship and i should'nt that way in a marriage he dont like to talk about our problems he will say somthing like i dont want to hear it or that old news. just need some advice on what i should do i have got really sress about the situation
2006-09-25 02:01:51 · update #1
thin kin there??
2006-09-25 01:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try talking to him. Give him chances. Tell him that he is really putting a burden on the relationship by refusing to talk. Maybe at some point you do need to throw in the towel if he is just unwilling to be an active participant in the relationship. It is a give and take situation and it seems as if he doesn't want to do his share, and you can't make him. He has to want to. Give him a few chances and tell him that if he doesn't the marraige will certainly end. If he cares, that will give him a sort of wake up call. If he doesn't, you'll know it then. Good luck! And don't let smart *** answers get you down even further......you don't need it!!
2006-09-25 09:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by mcnees79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that your marriage is a two way street and you feel like he's going the wrong way against you at times. That you need to talk about issues and be on the same page together after all you are married.Depending on how long you've been married-maybe some counseling would be in order. It's true guys are hardheaded and selfish-yours is not the only one.
2006-09-25 09:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by dodlydink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
husbands are husbands all over the worlds. American husbands are even worse, I can tell. I had TWO and I am not an American. Can you imagine the shock? Anyway, try to talk to him, if he does not understand, just accept the way he is and if you love him dearly, either you put up with this situation or you leave him. I did not love mine enought, so I left him and I came back to my country. It is your choice. But don't go for what I did. My case was different because we only remained married for a couple of months and mine was not selfish, he was MORE than that, he was abuse, it is a complete different story. Good luck
2006-09-25 09:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Cook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wonder that myself. It has got to be a man thing. Thats all ive ever come across in my life. They got it made work,come home and sit on thier ***. Dont help with anything...But got the balls to ***** and complain about everything. Funny how us women do it all and never complain,,because its just a part of life what needs to be done and we do it. Let them be selfish...as long as we are better and mentally stronger than they are,,,,**** em. Let them whine and cry. Everyone knows women are the stronger of the two.
2006-09-25 09:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure its becuz of the three letter word called 'ego'. Speak to him, care for him, love him more than before, his ego will melt and the understanding and the bond between you both will grow to greater heights. Take a break and spend sometime with him alone and do things you have not done before. Or take a 4-day holiday to a place you've never been. It will help. Good Luck !
2006-09-25 09:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by easyboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you mean "Why is YOUR husband so selfish at times, & thinking that HE's the only one in the relationship"?
People treat you the way you teach them to.
2006-09-25 09:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let your husband know you both need to talk about your differences or troubles in the relationship.
2006-09-25 08:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by bubbles26 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet your husband was not selfish to start off with.
You know what my therory is.
Women do more for men most of the time and then men take this for granted. Is it that women have dug their own holes for themselves.
I know what you are talking about, and it makes me bloody angry.
Stop doing as much for him and see how he copes. That is my thought.
2006-09-25 09:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by Aussie Possum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you try talking to him?selfish in what way?just try to talk to him because if you don't talk to him you and him are going to start fighting not agreeing and you should avoid that,,,,, let him know what you think maybe he has a good reason ,,, or maybe in the pass he had a bad relationship ,,,,
2006-09-25 09:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My God!!! She's in this relationship too?!? I didn't know, I'll send Her some flowers take Her to dinner, but... well I need smokes and beer; and there is a game on tonight....I'll tell Her She mopped the floor real good; that should even things up!!!!!
2006-09-25 09:00:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋