My fiance and I recently moved in with his father in a new home. We found out that a girl my fiance had sex with lives three doors down, and every time he goes outside he must stare over at her house. If she's outside, then he will look over a couple times. But even if she's not outside, he still looks. What is going on here?
2006-09-25 01:54:39 · 27 answers · asked by LiSa B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there's 1,000's of explanations but you can get the real one from him.
ask him.
2006-09-25 01:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by ortheother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its difficult to say without talking to your fiance. You should find a way to tell him that you are uncomfortable with her actions. Maybe you could indicate that you are wondering if there isn't something in (some meaning to) her glances and stares (at least from her prospective). In other words you would be first fishing for immediate and direct confirmation that there is no longer anything between them as far as your fiance is concerned. Secondly, you will be looking to him to work with you to communicate to her that her advances are no longer appreciated. Don't keep this problem to your self. Try to approach the subject positively and without any distress. You can frame it within a context of a discussion on communication and fidelity. You will find through your marriage that good communication and the fidelity of your relationship go hand in hand.
2006-09-25 02:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Theodore G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps they're having a wild affair behind your back and need to see each other at any possible minute. Or possibly you are being a bit paranoid and noticing it more that he is looking there. If you knew a friend lived 2 doors down you would look to see if they were there or not, wouldn't you
2006-09-25 01:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Pip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably just force of habit but if you have noticed it others might have also(like the person who lives 3 doors down) and you you should mention his staring at that house before the occupant sees him and wonders if it him trying no rekindle what they had before. nip the behavior in the bud. innocent or not.
2006-09-25 02:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by louis g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MaHOw did you know he had sex with her. Maybe his just afriad that you would go hesterical outside and beat up that girl
2006-09-25 01:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his motive of you living with him there is so that the ex sees you around and feel jealous. Of course, he looks to see if she's looking!
2006-09-25 02:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many unknowns, for you peace of mind, move into another apartment in another complex
2006-09-25 02:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not resolved about her yet. Tell him how you feel but in a nice way.
oooops, sorry not a guy here but the answer might help you out.
2006-09-25 02:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminscing, I wouldn't worry about it, but I would insist on getting your own place soon. I am sure it is uncomfortable for you. Too soon to feel threatened if that is all that is going on.
2006-09-25 01:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by 817_TX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy sees sex with a woman as a trophy and she is a trophy, and every guy thinks he was the best sexual partner his ex girls have had, so hes thinking she wants him again.
2006-09-25 01:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by cyanceychaser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you already know the answer to the question.
I'm sorry - but it's better you find out now.
2006-09-25 01:56:34 · answer #11 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋