i just read an email from my husband's ex in his inbox. she said thanks for his call last night. i confronted my husband about it and told me that it was nothing. he just feel guilty because he hurt that girl so badly because of me. he told me that he made that girl's life miserable. he also think that's maybe the reason why we can't have a baby girl. but now i'm the one whose hurting.
2006-09-25 01:40:36 · 13 answers · asked by faye 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kindness does not mean love however you shuld calm and nicely explain to him how this makes you feel. You as his wife your feelings should be more important than an ex and if he love and respects you he will cut ties. However if he is not up fron t with you about the contact and is hiding it then you have bigger issues in your marriage than this ex. It's called trust overall. Good luck
2006-09-25 01:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by prettyfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he has kids with the ex, he doesn't have a legit reason to be phoning her and "feeling bad". Why don't you tell him to pack his suitcase and go somewhere else until he figures out what he wants because you are number one no matter how bad he feels. He apparently still has feelings for his ex. Don't have any kids with this man right now...you'll just complicate the situation and it won't change him into the prince you want him to be. Have some pride and tell him to leave until he makes up his mind. Godloveya.
2006-09-25 02:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said that the reason why you can't have a baby girl is because he hurt his ex. That is totally irrational. Besides that, though, he sounds excessively concerned about the ex's feelings, so it's clear that he does still have feelings for her. Ask him if he "ever" loved her and, if so, why he broke up with her.
2006-09-25 01:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he have children with his ex? He should have no reason at all to be comunicating with an ex unles there are children involved. He should also not blame you for a decision he made he is a grown man. I would proceed with caution. What does having a baby girl have to do with anything???
2006-09-25 01:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have to say, that it was very nice of him to call his ex, but, his attention should be on you!!! How long have you been together??? You both have to move on. You can't stay stuck in the past. Good Luck.
2006-09-25 01:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt to seem at this from his attitude. He believes which you (a million) divorced him and (2) will evaluate having him back on particular situations, yet he has gotten no dedication from you that if he matters himself to assessment and therapy which you will quite be there interior the tip. He says he's prepared to fulfill those situations, yet now you look to propose yet another situation, that's that he look ahead to you in finding out for no count if to take him back in the previous shifting on along with his life and finding probably a bigger in good shape. It sounds like he's honest approximately desirous to return to you (why else might he conform to be subjected to the assessment and achievable "therapy" by ability of a psychologist?). So, are YOU honest approximately desirous to have him back? while you're undecided, then the two one in all you look to no longer be sure by ability of your marriage, which you ended. while you're effective, then dedicate based on clean situations. tell him which you would be able to have him back IF he's unique related to YOU and your dating, and he maintains by along with his promise (effectively). And tell him which you will look ahead to him, seeing no person else the two, till you're restored. supply him a particular date (men like their objectives to be clean) and intensely particular situations (like a letter from the psych that your guy seems honest, has validated a dedication to triumph over his themes, and has made significant progression). which will supply him some have faith which you're actually not in easy terms leaving him in limbo. in case you do no longer dedicate, why could he?
2016-10-17 22:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by montesi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your husband is trying to set up a booty call with his ex. It has nothing to do with you, just something he is trying to do.
2006-09-25 02:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,he is not still love her...but one thing about man that you have to know is:every mans want to have one more time sex with Ex's..
2006-09-25 01:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i would watch him like a hawk and i have an idea if u wana know what it is email me im being geniue
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2006-09-25 01:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb not love but he surely has some feelings for her !
2006-09-25 01:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋