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is there something wrong about homosexuality i mean i know its not normal but way not live ur life and 4get other peoples lives

2006-09-25 01:11:19 · 15 answers · asked by curiosity 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Your statement say a lot when you said "i know its not normal". I wonder if the women who thinks it's ok would take it up the rear like the gay men do. I know that the majority of them would not, and probably say "exit only". The ones that wouldn't do that and agree that it's alright is confusing for me. To me a person is not born that way. It is more of a mental illness or behavior problem. I have a 26 yr old son who is Gay. He doesn't work and basically lives off of other people. If he wants to be Gay and not work, that's his choice. He ended up bringing other guys in the house while I was working and having sex with them. I told him that was not aloud in my place and if he wanted to do that...he needed to get his own place. I gave him a choice and he continued to bring other guys in so I had to kick him out. He looks at me being unfair and that I hate him because he's Gay, but he can't see that I gave him a choice and he was the one that kicked himself out...not me. I explained to him that if he had a place and me and my girl came over to visit him we would not be all over each other in his home and it has nothing to do with sexuality, but it does have to do with respect!!! Everyone does have a choice whether or not that they want to be gay, I choose not to be. There are consequences to everything we do in life. Even though I don't agree with the gay lifestyle, I DON"T GAY BASH!!! If that's what they choose to be...so be it, but don't have one next to me guawking and drooling or hitting up on me, cause then they just crossed the line...and it comes down to respect!!! Once again...someone is not born Gay, it's a behavior/mental illness. If that was true and my father was an alcoholic...then if I get a DUI...I'll tell the judge it wasn't my fault, my father passed it down to me...I'm sure he'll understand. It is my fault and my choice to drink, not his. When Gay's say their born that way, it's just a cop out excuse for the behavior they chose.

2006-09-25 02:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 1 1

Personally I don't have a problem with it. I think that some people view it with abhorrance, some with curiosity, some with no interest at all. Many religions reject the thought of homosexuality as they believe it is wrong and unnatural because it is a sinful act of lust and doesn't produce children. Does this mean therefore when Adam and Eve had only sons...Kane and Abel....the whole of the worlds population stemmed from incest ??? It is not a lifestyle CHOICE, it is how a large percentage of the worlds population is born. I think the most important thing in anyones life is they are allowed to be themselves. If you are homosexual then it is normal for you. It is how you live your life and it is how you feel. Unfortunatley they are many blinkered people who would rather slam someone down as they are too homophobic to try and understand why they are different, after all everyone is different. .

2006-09-25 01:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by minitheminx65 5 · 0 0

Well see homos dont see anything wrong with being gay because they say its not a choice they are just born like that. Christians and maybe other religions say that being homo is wrong and that their going to hell, and its not nautural and that God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve. They also believe that being is a choice you make. There are a few scriptures in the bible that says being gay is wrong. Gays dont think their is anything wrong with being gay and that people despise gays are close minded and are idiots so be careful of what you say about or to gays on this site they will get pissed.

2006-09-25 01:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0 0

Because people love criticizing other people, if it's not for their sexuality it's for their religion or their colour or even the way they dress.

I guess it is just human nature to be an a/hole.

Religious people like to carp on about how it is against gods will and all that, but maybe if they kept their mouths shut and worked harder on being more virtuous themselves they might do more for their 'soul'.

2006-09-25 01:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by HP 5 · 1 0

look my dear friend....see all the above answers..this shows how this world is going...if u feel that everything is freedom, enjoyment ur own ways etc, then there is no necessity of affections and pure love. afterall ur own enjoyment is not everything in this world. u have to live a life which is pleasing to god and to ur parents..i'm asking u to do a simple thing..close the doors...speak to god once..ask him if he really likes the way ur thinking...if u really feel him, he will defnitely says 'no'...pls dont go by this world.....everyonehere will understand how bad is homosex only after they die....for many people my words sound crazy...but leave some things to god....then only ur life will be happy

2006-09-25 02:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by hjfvmkjb 1 · 0 2

depends on what you call
"normal"
i think it is just another choice of life and those who chose to live that way should be left alone they have enough to deal with without anyone telling them there choice is not the right one.

2006-09-25 01:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0 0

Most people do. You will always have the religious fanatics who try and control everyone else because of their own insecurities. Just go on with your business and leave others alone.

2006-09-25 01:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by thisisuandme 3 · 0 0

Some people may find it personally unsettling, but there is nothing wrong (from my aspect) with homosexuality

2006-09-25 01:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i dont see a problem w/it. if you are happy thats what counts. you dont see people living their life to make you happy . do itfor yourself. most people in this world need to be open minded and not so judgemental. those people who critizise are usually hippocrits. not all just most. its okay for them to judge, but dont judge them . i say what ever floats your boat go for it.

2006-09-25 02:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

People are born either STRAIGHT or GAY, it's that simple, it's just the way it is, and bisexual people are just more open-minded than the rest of us :)

2006-09-25 01:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by IslandAngel64 3 · 0 0

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