my friend who i meet every 2 weeks, i broke up with her about 3 days. she is a good girl. i broke up with her because she told me that she is wasting time talking to me and she hates me because i'm making fun of her (i was joking) and today she is telling me to forgive her and she didn't meant it! should i forgive her? and why?
2006-09-25 01:06:56 · 13 answers · asked by »isabélle« 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she also make fun of me like calling me a fulgy slut!
and i never say something just laugh!
2006-09-25 01:11:27 · update #1
well yes you should forgive her for no more a reason than as you said she is your friend and stop making fun of her
2006-09-25 01:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd forgive her. You obviously hurt her feelings with whatever you said. I know when I'm hurt, I tend to say things I don't mean in order to inflict the same hurtful pain that was caused to me. She did the same thing. She now regrets what she said and feels bad. Talk to her. There was just a miscommunication between you two and it can be resolved. There's no reason to throw a relationship away if it can be saved. If you want to save it anyway.
2006-09-25 08:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide whether you are better off with or without her. If you decide to forgive her ( she may have had a bad day or hormonal problems that day) you will have to take her as she is and walk away from her when she get gets negative or insulting and explain why you are doing that. If she insults you - walk away and say something like "Got to go. Don't like it when you insult me." Her behavior will change or you'll get tired of her.
2006-09-25 08:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Juli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her but ask her why she acted that way. Maybe you were saying it in a joking manner but it still hurt her feelings and she lashed out at you before thinking.
2006-09-25 08:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn some tact. Friends don't deliberately hurt the other's feelings. Sounds as though your version of a joke is probably pretty cruel.
2006-09-25 08:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she didn't like u to joking . just forgive her. i also have a friend who likes to joking like u and everybody hates her. don't joking because some people is too sensitive. BE SERIOUS.
2006-09-25 09:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive her because you picked on her and she has forgiven you for doing so she might have been having a bad day
2006-09-25 08:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by meandragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c we all need forgiveness sometimes.
2006-09-25 08:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cause you were nippy with her in the first place
2006-09-25 08:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive her, she is back now
2006-09-25 08:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋