Ok I don’t want loads of religious people coming in here now and saying be straight don’t go over to the dark side I am not thick and you should realise its genetic and you cant help it. But what I am doing it hiding it never experienced anything except what my gut instinct tells me I am worried about the life of gay man would be like, I am also worried Id miss looking at women as they are very attractive and beautiful to look at but don’t find sexually attractive. Plus what else is worrying me is I feel what if my grand parents are looking over me now and thinking , what he hell happened to the little and are disgusted with me as my nan was homophobic but in a loving kind of funny way never anything really nasty. But hear a lot of people saying if your gay you will go to hell I am not a very religious person but it is scary plus if that is true there will be a lot of us there , what do people think?
2006-09-25 00:52:42 · 9 answers · asked by Kaleb J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe you are g0y.
A lot of g0ys are religous and we live by Christian principles. We do not do anal sex we are not into effeminate behavior and we do not have the guilt associated wiht those things. We take a lot of flack from the gay community becuase they see us as judging them and it is true a lot of g0ys are against the gays but not all of them are like that.
If you are interested in masculine men and want to learn more go to http://g0ys.org be warned though there are pictures of nude g0ys engaged in frot on this site.
2006-09-25 04:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say Hell was an artefact of the human mind and is by and large used to scare people into one or other church.
Since we have very few people coming back to tell us what hell is like and similarly very few people coming back from (for more understandable reasons) I would suggest that it is very like that neither heaven nor hell exist in a real sense, that you are are own moral judge and that you should work out your own moral code on the basis of what you feel is right or wrong and perhaps backed by your own intelligent inquiry into what is desirable for human beings and human society as a whole.
2006-09-25 09:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not like you have to choose between either gay or straight. There will definitely be some major changes in your life, but you may still look at women. Perhaps you are more Bi than either. There will always be setbacks with being gay/bi and there's really no way to do it but have time allow them to accept it (hopefully it will happen eventually). And there's really no way of knowing who will go where in the afterlife. You'll have to decide yourself, although I don't think it will ever be as clear cut as these people who condemn gays put it.
2006-09-25 07:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by xdannifenx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lesbian who goes to a Baptist church, it's not in my mind to get up and tell everyone hey I'm a homo, you know. I think if I accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior, that He died for my sin with that price paid in full, He died on the cross and was resurrected this saves me from eternal damnation. Being gay isn't a very good witness before God, but this doesn't make my name blotted out in the Book of Lamb. I actually had a dream about a deceased loved one asking me if I was gay, very interesting. I told him I was, so, I came out to him in a dream. I don't think they are passing judgement in Heaven, they just want us to be happy with the life we have here on earth. I think you should spend time reading the Bible to learn and go to a church where people are compassionate. It's hard to find churches that aren't uptight, but it is worth the experience. Jesus was a very loving man on earth what makes you think He won't be this way towards you just because you are gay? He ate with sinners and knew these are the ones who needed Him the most. It's the fact that we all need Him no matter how great we think our sins are, He already knows the intentions of your heart. It's the part where our sins are paid in full once we accept Him into our hearts and our lives that people don't get. Everyone falls short even your grandparents, so, you should take into consideration that no one is perfect. I hope this helps you find Christ even if a murderer reads this because He loves those who seek Him. I say good day and God bless.
2006-09-25 08:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by 4me2no&u2findout 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A lot of Christians on the far right have learned a theology of fear, and they've been taught to fear homosexuality. More liberal Christians have been taught a theology of love and they interpret the Bible to speak only of abusive homosexual acts, like the gang rape in Sodom, or sex with young boys or temple prostitutes.
All sex which is entered into without caring and respect is wrong, and sex which is a product of love and respect for self and partner is an act of love, and is not wrong. You will have to accept that people from the supposedly Christian right, the Pat Robertson or Jerry Falwell of the world will never agree.
2006-09-25 09:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first 3 ans. have been outstanding and wish to add: Most, if not all, GLBT have had to face the trial of "coming out," and in a lot of cases it has been very hard including religion & parents.
None of us knows what happens after we die but if we treat our fellow human being with kindness (no matter our life style-God made us too) and try our best in all things then the afterlife will take care of its self.
Parents, most that is, love us no matter what and want to see us happy in life (my mom's words) and being that I am now a parent I feel the same towards my son.
I think it's about time a poem was reserected:
Desiderata- check it out it could give you peace of mind.
2006-09-25 09:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by dragon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well....
Actually how you deal with it is strictly up to you. There are many denominations of Christianity that are open and accepting of Gays.
You don't have to "miss" looking at girls, you can still appreciate them in the same way you appriciate a sunset, there is nothing wrong with that.
Yourgrandparents, I take it hey have "passed over"? Those who have passed over don't look back in judgement of others, they look back in love. They are able to see things we have no way of knowing and understand things we never could understand here in this lifetime. They would simply want you to be happy, regardless of what that means(so long as it isn't hurting others that is). I really wouldn't worry about them.
2006-09-25 08:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is neither right or wrong. It just is... You either are or you are not. As for your grandparents and family members. They love you, they may not understand but they will EVENTUALLY accept. Finally religion...Well everyone believes something different which is why I cant believe they are all correct. Therefore, they are probably ALL wrong. I dont believe in God, heaven or hell.
2006-09-25 10:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lesbian but i am a christian. God created us all. If being gay was wrong why did he make us this way. Why would god send his the people who are living the way he created us to hell? Stress less hunny. Gays are not going to hell etc. If you happened to be a gay murderer you would go to hell for being a murderer.
2006-09-25 11:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋