Could your breast size cause you depression?

Question

My breasts have always been small. now they are getting even smaller cause i am losing weight (because i need to). I hate their size to the extent that i am depressed (over 2 years now). could you please tell me what to do, do you have any suggestions, or anything that would make me feel better...i am really depressed, and my hubby just thinks i am being silly although i know that he would rather i was bigger but he is just being nice

Answer 1

yeppers :)

Answer 2

I agree with your husband that you are just being silly. You need to learn to appreciate what you have and make the best out of it. Anyway, there are many options nowadays...if you are into nipping and tucking then have a breast enlargement surgery (although I discourage that for safety reasons). You can wear those maximizer bras and find a dress/top type that will enhance your other beautiful features. I think you shouldn't let something physical depress you. It is just not worth gruelling over.

Answer 3

How do you like this are an answer. Depression is a state of the mind. If you don't like your breast then you can get depressed.
Do not think for your husband. If he says he likes them as they are, he just might. My brother likes smaller breast over the bigger versions.
If you feel that you want bigger breast there are operation to enhance them but before you do do some real soul searching. If of the pros and cons of just such an operation.
Think of your good points first. Do you like who you are. This is the big question. If you're comfortable with yourself then does it matter what anyone thinks?

Answer 4

OH MY GOODNEss....I surely hope NOT!!!! Like you, I am loosing weight too...and unfortunately mine are getting smaller too...my hubby is a booby man...and even he gets sad that they are getting smaller....maybe you can look into toning your breast muscles to help your breast line you know?? We should find that out....also...my hubby told me that if it reallly bothered me...I could go for a little job on it. He also says weather I have it or not...he would of course still love me no matter what!!! Not only that...keep in mind Many companies are making those bras that have extra paddings and push ups to help look as if you have something. At least we can do things like that. :o) Don't despair....keep doing the great work of loosing weight...who cares what goes...at least the fatty stuff goes...they are the ones that have weighed us down for years!!!! it is time for us to get feeling good and up to go. So don't worry too much about it. For me I still struggle with depression...I don't think it really relates to it...I think it just makes us feel less of a woman when we loose them...that is all...be grateful you do have some....there are sweet ladies out there that have lost them to sad situations...and they struggle with that too. Don't be down...things will be okay. Look up to God. He will surely bless you !!!

Answer 5

The only reason your brest size will cause depression is if you spend more time worrying about what other ppl think rather then trying to be happy with yourself. Any more then a handfull is a waste as they say...you can always get bigger ones if its that vital for you, but before you go down that road remember your husband married you the way you are now, so I can only assume that he lves you the way you are, and that he is more interested in you as a whole rather then just obbessing about your chest.

Answer 6

You should learn to like yourself and the way that you are made. Do you have your health? Both legs? Arms? Nice face? Can you walk without tons of pain? Many people don't have some of these things and would trade whats bugging you in a second. Everybody is built differently and have different sizes of body parts. Hope I made you feel better, if not, sorry. :)

Answer 7

Your husband is probably fine with it. You are not. There's just one thing for you to do if you can and that is to have breast implants. The consequences of that surgery are: painful, costly, a chance something could go wrong. Usually, it turns out fine, but that is a decision you have to make or accept yourself as you are. Some men like small breasts.

Answer 8

I think you are becoming everly-obsessed by something that is actually of very little importance.

Breast size may be important to vacuous bimbos who have brains the size of a pea but unless you regard yourself as belonging to that group I suggest that you should concentrate on losing weight, which will be good for your physical health and stop obsessing about the size of your breasts which can only be bad for your mental health.

Answer 9

Dear Cordellia, Do you know there are many women who are now suffering from breast cancer?? Thank God that you are healthy and the your breasts are healthy. I think this is most important. We must thank God for giving us health---it is a blessing!!!! Life is giving of yourself to others,be merciful to others and do deeds of mercy to help other people. If there is so much to do to help others--this depression will disappeared because you put other people first in your life. I think you will feel better,much better when you think of others and their suffering which are worse than yours!!!! I hope you understand .

Answer 10

I think you're being silly.
If only we could shut off what we have let the media do to the minds of women.
Go to the clitoris.com...they have pix of what REAL women look like(breasts) other parts too

Answer 11

Do not be sad . It is asimple problem . you can enlarge it by simple exercises to the pectoralis muscle of the chest region that gives it abeautiful shape and if u can not take hormonal therapy under the supervision of adoctor