Two months ago, I asked a question about this guy. He's a chamber musician I play with, a very kind person; I really like him. Two months ago, I heard that he had a girlfriend, but he never mentioned it to me. He is reserved, but also, I think he particularly didn't want me to know. He was, however, very careful then to observecertain boundaries, and, while there was some flirting, I don't think it was really destructive. He also seemed very cautious about doing things with me. This is no longer the case.
There has since been a dramatic shift. He is suddenly much more available, more open, more interested, subtly flirtatious, and my friend questioned him quite closely, and all of his questions which should have been answered with," I have a girlfriend," or "I am living with her," were answered in the negative. Something tells me he has broken up with her, but I am not sure. Anyways, I really like this guy. He is the kind of person I could see something serious with. What should I do?
2006-09-24 23:26:37 · 7 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
express your self....and be candid but careful in your approach....although we allow ourselves to drift with the waves....slowly but steadily u might win him over for life time.
2006-09-24 23:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys comes across as really nice, easy to get on with and seem very down-to-earth and a people person. But at the end of the day they are all the same. Best thing to do it just ask him straightout whether he does have g/f. If you just assume and only listen to the rumours you hear about him then you'll never know true or a lie and in the end you'll lose out. Who know this guy probably does have girl but she could be living overseas.
Key is don't let him play you, it'd mess you up and its not very nice. Good luck x
2006-09-25 06:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Yoruba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep talking to him and maybe he will ask you out...it sounds good anyway...and if he is acting different towards you then he might of broke up with his girlfriend....i have had some experience with musicians and they seem meet a lot of women and i found them hard to be faithful...but you just think about it and if you really want to go out with him then work on that goal...
2006-09-25 06:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him - don't sit back and hope something might happen, cause it always leads to missed opportunities, trust me!!
Maybe just ask him to do something casual like go out for a drink.
Or you could just say to him, look I really like you and I get the impression that my feelings are reciprocated. Then ask if he is attached and if he isn't, ask him out.
2006-09-25 06:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by mul052 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN AWAY. If he lied to you in the beginning, it might sound crazy, but it will only get worse...trust me. Also, If he dumped her for you he will do the same to you. You are not even dating him and already you are finding out he is not honest. Imagine what you would find out if you really knew him
2006-09-25 06:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Billys girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Don't rely on a friend to ask him. (This isn't the fifth grade, is it?) Do it yourself. And don't be coy. We don't want any doubt.
Good luck!
2006-09-25 06:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try so what ever happened with your girlfriend?
And ya want to go for ............starbucks?
2006-09-25 06:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋