Me and my boyfriend have been together on and off for like 3 years. He cheated on me a few times in the beginging and like middle of our relationship. Anyways, he always has these pictures of girls. One was two chicks kissing, and i was like whatever, it was at work and they were ugly so i wasnt gettin all stupid girl friend on him, you know? Then he had a pic of this b*tch in panties and another one with just her face. The only reason i saw them was cuz i was lookin at his pics to see if he kept the one i sent a few days back. Sure enough he didnt. But he kept hers. He made up all these excuses and then even said he got them sent last night, even tho it said it was recieved 3 days ago. He tried to say it automatically saves to his phone. He works with her. What do i do. I am not a stupid girl who gets played, i just need to know if i should throw in the towel, or what i should do. Am I just trippin or is that messed up? Can someone help me please?
2006-09-24 22:53:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(It was on his phone)
2006-09-24 23:00:48 · update #1
I really don't need to be insulted. When I said on and off... i meant we'd break up for a while and go back out. I haven't been played alot and I am not stupid so you might as well not send something if its f*cked up like that.
2006-09-24 23:12:03 · update #2
You're not a stupid, Girl. You said so yourself. Don't let him lie to you that way.
2006-09-24 22:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that this guy has cheated on you in the past tell me that this guy isn't in to you.. sure he likes the sex any sex for men is good. How many times does this guy have to reject you before you get the hint. If he loved you and cared about your feelings he wouldn't have ANY of these pic. He doesn't care if he hurts you not then or not now that's why he can f**** other girls.. and then you forgive him so he can do it again...
2006-09-25 05:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, I can help ! Get your a** out of this relationship, and move on to someone better. Do not waste any more time. AND, don't fight over him. All it does is give him the big head, and make you look stupid. Move on, and don't waste too many tears.Been there. Done that. Do not waste your time with a guy that thinks he's all that to all women.
2006-09-25 06:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a stupid girl who get played? Sounds to me you've already been played way too much!
If he cheats on you in the beginning of a relationship then it's already doomed!
Not to mention he don't keep pictures you send but of other porny girls. He sounds like a real a**hole.
2006-09-25 06:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when i say that this guy is not worth it.I've been in your position before and although it's nice to think that people change sometimes they just don't want to.You deserve so much better that this.Nobody should have to feel threatened or insecure in a relationship.Move on from this loser and one day you'll find someone who will appreciate you and only you.
2006-09-25 05:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're no stupid.
There's a legit reason to be upset.
And lots of reasons to say goodbye to him. Consider the 3 years as a learning experience. Here in my country we call it "tuition fees."
BTW, I'm a guy!!!!!!
2006-09-25 06:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by ang-pogi-ko 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In general, people don't send pictures of themselves in panties to colleges, not unless there is something going on.
Sorry...
2006-09-25 05:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by HP 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once again I really started out reading the whole story in order to give an answer... but I just don't understand....
Sorry.
2006-09-25 05:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
walk away and never look back the guy is playing u because he can..u deserve better..and u will get better but u gotta leave jerks like him behind
2006-09-25 05:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, forget him. Those were the signs that your boyfriend is just playing with you. He's not serious.
2006-09-25 05:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by bembie719 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋