Girls! Do you like guys who talk less?

Question

Should I be talking more to impress girls, or what? Most of the times I fail to initiate conversation. I end up only being "Just Good Friend".

Answer 1

depends. if ya just talking and it comes out macho or bable. hell no shut your mouth. girls are'nt impressed by that crap unless they are teenagers. women want to hear an educated man speak but not redundantly. they want to hear fact not fiction unless it's a romantic what if scenerio you speak of. stay on topics with them. don't skip to other conversations. don't try to out talk her. let her finish her sentence. try not to contradict her. flatter her but don't go overboard. use witfull humor don't talk in old cliches. and last but not least. never tell her about another womans figure

Answer 2

I Love A Man Who Speaks His Mind And is Honest About His Feelings And Knows How To Communicate. And As Long As You Are Not Going On About How Much Money You Make, What Kind Of Car You Drive, Your Love making Skills Or The Size Of Your penis, You Should Be Ok.

Answer 3

You don't have to necessarily talk more than your usual after you are in a relationship. But you cannot get to know someone without conversations. And how does the girl know you like her if you never initiate conversation?

Answer 4

I dont think having a lot to talk about is a prerequisite to impress. Being fun and collaborative in a conversation and easy to move from one topic to another is beneficial but not an absolute necessity. Once you click with someone, you make your experiences with them and enjoy their company even if there's no talking. Just be yourself.

Answer 5

It really depend on the girls personality. Some like guys to just listen, other like a guys to talk and they listen. There are some girls who don't talk much and are shy with guys. Just like some guys who are shy and don't talk much to girls.

Just try to be yourself and you'll soon attract the right girls that is suitable for you. Treat girls with respect and make them laugh. Being at the level of 'Just good friend'

Answer 6

Well. My boyfriend is a quiet person. I get frustrated when he doesnt talk much when I want us to have a good conversation. Remember just dont talk too much about crap because it will scares us ladies away.

Answer 7

i think u should just ask questions more... about her.... b actually b interested wen she answers... makes her feel lyke u take an interest in her... that u rather hear her talking and not just yourself... compliment her here n there.. make her feel somewhat special but don't raise her on a pedestal ... don't let the convo fall into awkward silence...

Answer 8

Anybody can dig anyone that can listen but anyone that can respond to what is said to them is that much more greater. respond and let it be knw that you are interested in more then friendship. Better way to do that could be by taking her out on an intamate dinner/talk date. Stand your ground and be you, I think that we should be with someone that can deal with who we are. Not with someone they think we are.

Answer 9

NOOOOOOOOOOO!!

Oh, but not too much to not let me have a breath!

No, but just right.

The exact amount I do.
Only talk a lot about something interesting, philisophical and worthwhile, not stupid!

Give her back the same body language and sentence type and length to show you are attracted to her! "You're like a magnet...."

Change your pic! Ew!
(green monster one).

Answer 10

ul get a good chic who loves ur company but chics want somrbody with a sense of humour try learn a few tricks