Why my kids don`t eat?

Question

Hello.
Lately I`ve been stressed out by my little twindaughters ,age 9 months and 3 weeks.They`re not eating properly,just nibbling.I`m still brestfeeding both of them,but they are getting plenty of choice in solids as well.They used to eat almost everything what we were eating,95% is cooked from scratch(I do love cooking and so does my partner),then specially softened and blended for babygirls,so they can have.They`ve been having plenty of fruits.Everything was working for really reasonable period of time,actually from the start of feeding with solids.But what`s happening now.They are still quite active,they do all things what they are supposed to do.And I presume they`re burning quite a bit of their calories.And they should`ve been eating but instead they are just so playful.
Mums and dads,everyone who has common or known similar situation,pls give us some advice.
TNX!

Well thx already for such a quick resonace.
For those who are confused-my twin daughters both are 9 months and 3 weeks old,almost 10 months old I should say.

Answer 1

I would really try not to stress out especially about food. Babies and children are very perceptive and pick up on your stress. Stress around food can spark psycological problems with food which can effect them in later life. As for the breast feeding I would reduce it or stop when you personally feel ready but not just because you want them to eat more solids, I may be wrong but not at this age. The emotion bond and comfort a child and mother get from breast feeding is magical and I know I was very sad when I stopped with both my girls. Stop when you feel ready not when others think it is time.
I know its very hard not to stress out because you want the best for your babies but really any child or baby will eat when they are hungry and as long as they have your milk (and you are eating good food) and you offer them nutritional other food items which you obviously are I dont see a problem. If their body needs them it will tell them and they will eat them. The problem arises when parents offer something sweet to tempt them just so they will eat.Then the child learns that it can refuse the vegetables as something like a biscuit will come if they dont eat them. Dont fall into that trap and just try to relax. You are obviously a very loving, maternal mother so Im sure you will be fine. Women who breast feed should be congratulated because you are doing the very best for your babies. Good luck!

Answer 2

First, don't think of cutting down on the breast milk, especially for the 3 week old! What has likely happened is you are probably producing alot of breast milk. Are they content? Have their diapering habits decreased? If they are happy and are still requiring about the same amount of diaper changes, they are just fine. The 9 month old should still be on mostly plain cereals and some fruits, with plenty of milk. But, usually initiating additional foods into their diet is brought about by a baby just not staying satisfied between feedings. Doctors will tell you breast milk is all babies need for the first year of their lives. Mine apparently never heard this, because I had to start with simple additions at 6-8 months.
You have just given birth, and mother nature is making sure both babies are getting plenty to eat. Your breast milk is richer now, and also probably producing more than you realize. If they are happy and content, you're likely to even produce more. As long as everything I mentioned above is fine, just relax. Sounds to me like you are doing a wonderful job.

Answer 3

You didn't mention if the twins are your first or not. I'm guessing that they are. That is because if you have older children you would have noticed that they had their periods of barley eating and being hungry all the time (or at least it seems like it). Those times are growth spurts. I wouldn't worry about it unless you notice that the girls seem to be losing too much weight. For your piece of mind talk to their doctor. Chances are everything is within a normal range. If not then the doctor diagnose the problem. Good luck

Answer 4

as long as you children are active, healthy happy and growing do not worry, remember a child will not starve its self, young children have a very natruallly healthy approach to eating they eat until they are full, then stop (if only we adults had such sense). Well done on all the home cooking it is not the quantity of food that counts but the quality. so feel happy that you are giving them the best fuel possible

Answer 5

Give them the food first and then the breastmilk. That is what worked for my son. Also, make eating fun. Make a big deal of each bite.
Don't worry too much about it though. They go through periods of very little appetite and then next thing you know, they won't stop eating.
And just remember, they are still getting lot of good nutrition as long as you are still breastfeeding.

Answer 6

Don't worry. My daughter went through that when she was about 1 year... Then again a couple weeks ago actually... she is 2 now. I was so worried when she wouldn't eat, and i would try everything... I would make her several different meals to get her to eat.. But eventually she started eating again. On her own time, when she wanted to. My doctor told me it was nothing, and so did my mother and mother in law... I really should have listened because it is just something kids go through... Just have patience. And don't worry. As long as they are drinking plenty fluids they should be fine. :)

Answer 7

Keep up with the breast milk and dont worry about them eating their solids as long as they are still eating some they will be fine, most children go through this phase i still get it now with my 3 yr 10 mths old daughter some days she eats really well then some days she just nibbles and i experienced it with my olders 2 children if you are worried see your dr or health visitor and see if there are any vitamin supplements you can give to just top up for the days they dont eat well.

Answer 8

You sound like a good mum, but don't worry, kids eat off and on as they need to. I would feed them first the solids and then breast feed afterwards to 'top them up'. Eating is a very social thing as well, so try and sit down as a family. At this age try and give them a few things that they can eat on their own and enjoy the family time. Things like cereal cookies. Enjoy them! Time flies.

Answer 9

As long as their health isn't suffering, let them carry on - they will eat when they are hungry. I found that my children went through 'growth spurts' when they ate a lot, then there were times when they just nibbled at bits of stuff. Give them lots of choice (you seem to be doing remarkably well so far!) and make sure they have a balanced diet. Cutting back on the milk may make them reach for solids.

Answer 10

I am a twelve year old big sister of two babies- one nine month old, and one two year old. We experienced sme problems with that too. I think the best solution for right now is to buy baby jars food at the comissary, fruits for breakfast, vegetables for lunch, and meat and potatoes for dinner. They are on the baby isle so you shouln't wory about finding them. Another good option would be to buy cottage cheese in the youghurts department. It is red and whilte. Very high in protein. You can also get applesauc-kids love it! Try entertaining the twins while feeding with a toy or something that will keep their minds off the food. Good luck, and have fun with your children!