Isn't it bad to be a happy single woman through all my life? I love my boy friend but I have no plan to marry him because I love the present status and enjoy my life. However, people around me push me to get married with him. It becomes a pressure to me because what I have to face is two families and coming burden to raise child. So, should I get married?
2006-09-24 21:59:25 · 20 answers · asked by IDO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The fact you have asked the question is your answer. You must have doubts that being married is the right thing to do. It is a massive commitment and even if you are happy and in love with your partner the timing may not be right for you. The funny thing is you have said that people around you are pushing you to make this commitment but you haven't said wether or not he is ready and has asked you too. If it doesn't feel right, DON'T do it. You have time and don't be pressured. Best wishes and good luck with what you decide. Decide for you and not what others think you should do.
2006-09-24 22:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by minitheminx65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam shaking my head as Iam reading this . You are an adult, you make your own choices about what you want to do. If they want you to marry him, then let them break their necks and do it their selfs. Don't get push by pressure to get married. Then later on regret doing it.
You have a mouth, let the words come out and say no. that you are happy being the way you are. That when you ready, then they will know.
some ppl don't do what they want. They do it sometimes by pressure from other ppl. Then it turns out ugly instead of good. If thats all they talk about, then don't bother to listen. Get up and do something. Start talking about another subject.
You be the one in the marriage not them. You be the one who will be there if it turns ugly and so on. Marriage is like drugs, just say NO.
2006-09-25 07:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you yourself don't want to get married you should not let others force you into marriage. Depending on where in the world you live it is quite acceptable to live with someone and even have a family with someone without getting married.
What is marriage but a piece of paper, the commitment is already there.
2006-09-25 05:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lydjos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it bad to be a happy single woman through all my life? no if you are happy stay happy.
Do not get married because your friends or who ever says you should be married, say single and free, and remain happy,
One could never feel pressured into marriage.
only married if you are
1. Truly In love
2. Ready for a commitment
3. Able to remain honest, faithful, trust worthy to one person
2006-09-25 05:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by soulstore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I know exactly what U mean .Marriage doesn't come as natural to people like us as it does to other people. But they keep pushing and pushing. Sometimes is like "When u gonna get married ?" And we don´t even have a couple. I adore been single and frankly I don´t know How and or if its ever gonna happen to me. But if it happens, it has to be something natural and not something one rushed to because of the pushing.
2006-09-25 05:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Loser Millionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if it isnt what you want. i thought i had found the love of my life, had to kids with him and now we arent together anymore.
i am never getting married, everyone i know is divorced and i dont want to go thru that. im not saying its a bad idea, its just not right for some people. if you are happy then do what you feel is best, whats deep in your heart. dont let people pressure you.
2006-09-25 05:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by kel.babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone pressure you into getting married. If you and your bf are happy the way you are then stay that way.. Other people don't live your life so why should you let them pressure you into marriage.
2006-09-25 05:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get married only when u r ready for it.dont get pushed into something u dont want because u'll resent it later.as long as ur boyfriend doesnt have a problem dont take others opinions about ur life seriously.if he insists on it then explain ur inhibitions to him and try to solve it amiably.
2006-09-25 05:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him, get married. it seems to me that you love your life much more than your bf. love means to be willing to give up the things that you like for your love.
2006-09-25 05:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by kuih_doryaki_sedap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do what your heart feels is the best and dont be pushed by anyone outside your relationship, you have the answer.
2006-09-25 05:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by cimbarashe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋