I been avoiding my boyfriend's askin me if is everything alright. I been ignoring his Q's and keep changin the subject. I feel gulity & so scared to lose him. Hes MR. GOOD MAN. Too good to be true. We've been together for 5 months & I MIGHT be pregnant. He's the father of my baby.
I've been talking, flirting, teasing with my ex boyfriend (who lives in NYC and I live in Cali) I just dont feel right what I did behind my boyfriend's back. My ex knew that I've been with my bf. I knew he's with someone else. I so confuse that he told me he still got his feelings for me. I don't know if he's playing me becuz I dont want to get played. I love my bf. He's my present & my future.
Should I tell my ex to stop OR stop talking to him & tell my bf the truth?
2006-09-24 21:57:52 · 19 answers · asked by simpLy_mamiヅ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex doesn't care that I am with someone else. He also doesn't care that he got a girlfriend.
2006-09-24 22:01:32 · update #1
What if I tell my man the truth. He's gonna upset and leave? =/ That's my most fear thoughts.
2006-09-24 22:04:01 · update #2
You should do all of the above. Tell the ex to stop, then stop talking to him, and then be honest with your current boyfriend about your situation.
2006-09-24 22:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Zach S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOOOOOOOPS!
HOLD ON! STOP RIGHT THERE!
if MR. GOODMAN is the father of your baby and he's your present & future, theres no point in telling him what you've done not unless you are guilty of something else? are you sure its only flirting, talking and teasing? nothing else? like sleeping with him? whats the point of all that? if your ex knew that you both have a new relationship, THEN ITS ALL FOR PLAYING. whats the point of all that talking & teasing & flirting? and you gotta stop that kind relationship. be frank and tell you're ex how much you love your LIFE. both of you should wake up to the reality that you both should SPLIT. if you dont, you'll lose both.
you're gonna be a mom. congrats....
2006-09-24 22:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by leviosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your ex to stop and pay all your attention on your present lover. Only this way will not make u feel guilty. If you still have feeling with your ex, then you must choose one of them and could not regret your decision. If you don't make a decision, then you will hurt three people, you, your boyfriend and ex. So, be brave and tough.
2006-09-24 22:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by IDO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,u have completely lost it girl.u say ur bf is ur only present & the future,then what the hell were u thinking then when u were cheating on him & flirting with ur ex-bf.
this is the situation where v guys frm all over the world sitting out here infront of our computers can't advice u.its not any simple issue or gossip of the week.its u two who have 2 face each other & settle this situation on ur own.then what the hell r u doing sitting here & reading our views.go & talk 2 him.
but 1st ,terminate all ur contacts & ur relationship with ur ex,he's just playing with u gal.i wish u good luck babe.Ciao!!
2006-09-24 22:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Hemant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are yo complicating your life. You left this guy because it was over act like it and keep him in the past nd definately out of your present. If it was my bf i know he would be pissed. This ex probably doesnt care any how and just wants to show that he can do what he wants with you.
2006-09-25 00:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by svt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get tested to make sure, if u r tell ur b-friend about the baby. Dump the ex for good. If he doesn't care that u r both with other people then he's not good for you! Best wishes!
2006-09-24 22:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Foxgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much feelings you may have for your ex, do not in any case go back to him. Stick with your current boyfriend and now that he is the father of your baby as well, you should not even thinking of leaving him. To hell with exes! they are exes for a reason!
2006-09-24 22:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing games and talk to the father of the baby. Its not about you anymore as you have a new life growing inside that is so important!!!!
2006-09-24 22:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u know that he is ur mr.right then why the hell are u draen towards ur ex?its very diificult to get mr.right in ur life.and u have got him.so stop all that nuisance and just go to him.first u shud stop talkin to ur ex.if u think that ur b/f will understand u then tell him,if no then dont make things worse by telling him.just go ahead.you have a gr8 future with him.
2006-09-24 22:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by anuja b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u re afraid that after u tell him he leaves he might leave later because of some other reason. so if he is going to leave he will leave whatever reason there will be. so my suggestion - there is no need to prolong the pain, u tell him and see. if he leaves - he leaves, at least the uncertainty will be ower. if he doesn't leave - u don't need to worry any more, u will know that he will stay at your side. and anyway, about your pregnancy - i hope u have parents and if the worst happens(he leaves u) go to your parents. they re here to be there for u always. good luck
2006-09-24 22:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋