are american men better than british, (romantic, caring, considerate),
2006-09-24 21:54:25 · 28 answers · asked by die_tryin2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no smart **** comments from men that aint been laid recently!!!
2006-09-24 21:58:37 · update #1
just to clear up no i aint a slag, I just believe in traditional romance, i respect men that respect me, and yes unfortunatly i have a pull towards bad boys but do realise that it aint good,
2006-09-24 22:23:33 · update #2
If you keep having trouble, the problem may be you....
2006-09-24 21:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's because of the difference in culture across the world; for example in the UK women are taught that they don't NEED a man to be happy or to provide for them, that they can earn their own money and buy their own place etc. Being a single parent is accepted in the UK as normal so women don't feel as if they HAVE to stay with the father of their child or HAVE to be so good to him that he would want to stay. There's just all of thes choices for women in the UK now and because they have this freedom of choice they are picky about the type of men they spend time with... So I don't think they (some of them) are man haters, but they don't tollerate behaviour from men that women in other countries might tollerate. There are women of course that do have 'issues' with men, I wont call them men 'haters' cos that's a bit strong, but I'd say from my own experiences and people I've known, that women who have issues with men have been hurt by a man in the past: that might have been her father, uncle, old boyfriend or husband etc. and that the way they treat men now is a kind of 'safe' way of being with men. All of those choices and options that women have (that I mentioned above), men have too so some men treat women badly and hurt them. - these hurt women then hurt other men and so it goes round and round. The UK is a pretty screwed up place for family values and loyalty and monogamy; it's as if we are breading generations of 'loners'. But not all women want to hurt men or be men haters. There are a lot of women in the UK that would like to meet a really nice guy and have a mutually respectful relationship.
2016-03-27 08:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a shame that you keep getting messed around, I really don't think that nationality has anything to do nwith mentality or emotional maturity. Maybe you give out the wrong signals? Us men are a bit slow at reading these things and need to be sure before we go the whole hog and risk getting hurt ourselves. Or maybe its the type of guy you fancy that is just no good, my younger sister has the same prob she likes bad boys and well they are just bad and not around for long.
2006-09-24 22:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by crownose 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first you need to know what a gentleman is ' someone who makes those around him as comfortable as possible ' this means more than opening doors or being polite , it's making effort to be genuinely pleasant to all they meet and being as helpful as possible to any they can help . The problem you may have is you are probably looking in the wrong place for a gent although i'll admit there are less gentlemen about we are still here and still holding doors for others and making the efforts without thought for ourselves .
To get a gentleman you have to be a lady
2006-09-24 22:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by saint 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, we are out there, but weve generally already been snagged, and are happy in our relationships. my wife and i have been together for 25 years.
lets be crude; you know what we all want, and we, as men know what we want... and girls are too easy. where is the courtship, the passsion, the hot sweaty afternoons... wheres the imagination, the excitement of the unknown. you dont have to put out to be loved... well, not on the first date anyway...
gentlemen are rare. and as an englishman, its honourable to treat your woman, any woman, with respect. well thats how i was bought up. they arent baby mommas, or breeders... i dont expect my wife to be at my beck and call 24 7, and i dont expect her to have sex when i want it, cook every day and do my dirty laundry... life happens, kids happen and we must adapt to it... or become macdads when they throw us out... being in a relationship is a lot more than sex on tap.. some blokes dont see it... and some of us do.
oh, im a long way off perfect. but if shes busy, ill cook, if shes working, ill look after the kids, ok, so i dont do housework... but i have bought her the most efficient machines, which do. and occasionally i buy her flowers..not just because i messed up, or upset her... but because i love her.
2006-09-24 22:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry your not having much luck, i am a single bloke in Nottingham, and they say the ratio of women to men as somthing like 6-1 and i am told im a very nice bloke and i am im a good looking bloke, i do treat women with respect, and since my divorce 4 years ago still no luck. so we are out here but seems unwanted.
2006-09-25 03:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you are looking in the right places??????? it is all about what kind of people you meet. are you mixing with nice people in nice areas and from nice families? I don't mean to criticise but your language needs a bit of polishing. No decent man wants to be teased about his girlfriends language, manners, etc. Maybe you need a makeover yourself. I am married to a great british guy so ........... there are nice brithish men. Americans SEEM TO BE maybe better but I don't think the country matters
2006-09-24 23:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by laidia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam british and i can say that there are planty of men and myself who know how to treat a woman trouble is some men are selfish you have,nt met the right ones.
2006-09-24 22:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I`m sorry my dear but you must be looking in the wrong places. Nothing more I enjoy than the thanks I get from a lady when I open a door for her or allow her first choice over myself. There are more of us than you think.
I am an English Gent and there can be no sweeter lady in the world than an English Rose such as yourself. Until next time, Goodbye Sweet Lady.
2006-09-24 22:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe just maybe you are not looking at the right men??
We do exist and we do care and whats more we are in all counties of the world even the UK. You just have to find us, thats the hard bit.
Keep looking he is out there somewhere and probably looking for YOU.
;) H
2006-09-24 22:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, coming from an American guy.....I don't know. I know how to treat a woman by being considerate, caring, and romantically. Yet, I can't talk for all of us. If you ask me, I am one of a few where I live in the states.
2006-09-24 21:58:04 · answer #11 · answered by Zach S 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋