I am hindu mogaveera girl. I am loving one guy he is also hindu mogaveera. His surname is Karkera. mine also karkera. shall we marry? is it possible?
2006-09-24 21:51:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hindu's don't usually allow u to marry with anyone with same surnames/family names....
....usually each parent's 'family names' (from boy and girls side) are taken to help decide whether u can marry...
....if they match then it is a straight 'no'.
U r better to ask ur parents if u are able to talk to them about this relationship...if not..
..then just bring it up in a conversation and say u r just enquiring...then u can decide.
BUT i am REALLY sure u can't..
Good Luck!
2006-09-26 03:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not aware of "Hindu mogaveera" either. Since I don't know about your religion or culture, I can only answer this question based on what i do know. In Australia, your surnames being the same is no reason not to marry- as long as you can prove your families are not closely related. Brother cannot marry sister - and cousins cannot marry. You could not, for example, marry the son or daughter of your fathers brother.
If you have doubts, i suggest you try to find an official, who can search your records, to see how closely your family's are related.
If this is not possible, try talking to some of the older members in both the families, to see if they can name a family member who may be a relative of both families.
I hope this is help-full. I you love this man, and he loves you, then i wish you every happiness - and a long happy marriage.
2006-09-25 00:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by TOP DOG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mogaveera
Mogaveeras are the major fishing community in coastal Karnataka, India. They form one of the largest communities of the Tulu ethnic group. The word Mogaveera is a modernised version of the old word Mogeyar .
They dominate the fishing and marine business in coastal Karnataka. They are distributed all over Kasaragod,South Canara and Udupi Districts. Many have migrated from their native villages to Mumbai, Bangalore etc. Mogaveeras were the first people from South Canara/Udupi to visit Bombay and the coasts of Gujarat & Saurastra in the north .
Lineage surnames
Amin
Bangera
Chandan
Gujaran
Kanchan
Karkera
Kotian
Kunder
Maindan
Mendon
Pangal
Puthran
Salian
Shriyan
Suvarna
Thingalaya
Other surnames
Das
Gurikara
Marakala\Marakalthi (men and women respectively)
Mogavira
Naika
Rao
Sapaliga
Tandela
Tholar
2015-10-28 17:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but im a chistian and im not aware of you and he being a hindu mogaveera(???????????). i dont know what that means. but for us christians, it doesnt matter if you have the same surname as long as you are NOT BOTH CLOSE RELATIVES. 3rd degree is allowed.
in our country there is a well known family. their very rich and because they dont want to share their money to others, they marry their own relatives.
so i think as long as you love each other, theres no problem with that. specially when you're parents both agree.
2006-09-24 21:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by leviosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's a surname got to do with marriage???? As long as both of you are not related, Its very much possible. Go ahead take the plunge....
2006-09-24 22:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by Wren M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
religion & caste makes mans & society . if you born in some other caste then you never known as hindu or muslim or christian etc. marrage need mutual understanding. if you both understand each other. then no need to think that surname matches or not. so i tell you to choose you love for life donn`t afriad from surname.
2006-09-24 23:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are the 2 of you blood related? if no then see no reason not to marry, in some cultures and i have no idea about yours it is permitted. i would check with an official to find out if the marriage could be formed. good luck
2006-09-24 21:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by c504play 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear there is not problem for your marriage.
Only just tell him that your surname is also same, if he agree to it and there is no problem for him to love you, why don't you receprocate his love.
I like your sincere love dear, go ahead, this life for you...enjoy and love each-other...
Let God and people bless you in this regard.
Best of Luck
2006-09-24 22:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by SA-bic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUNNY LOVE isn't consistently the respond, U choose have faith ordinary communication is lots THAT is going alongside with EGTTING MARRIED, IM no longer asserting U WONT yet U could MAKESURE ALL that is THERE.
2016-10-17 22:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by schrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should know each other better. And u guys should agree on these things. If you marry him without his permission. You might get to jail. I definetly don't want u to be in jial! It's horrible!
2006-09-24 21:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋