own Hokkien song , which my son likes to listen . When I played the Kids CD , he just don't like to watch & he just walk away . My son is now 1 1/2 years . Is it because of my mother in law that's why my son react this way ? How should I solve this problem ? My mother in law also try to play the kids CD but in the end she will play back her own CD instead .
2006-09-24 21:00:55 · 10 answers · asked by tay i 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
dun worry n stress so much. first i think u got to purchase a mixture of Baby Songs (English n Chinese) CD, play it in the car and at home over n over again. Dun worry they wun get bored. Infact they trying to remember the song. They might be playing with their toys but their ears are listening to the song.
Maybe you can communicate with your mother-in-law asking her to play the children CD or VCD during the day when both yr husband and you were at work.
2006-09-27 14:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by bee8250 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Mother-In-Laws do have their own ways! You need to have some patience . Let the Music Listening habits of your son be handled by your Mother -in-Law for 2-3 more months . Don't react to her tricks . May be if she sees you not reacting , she may stop and then your kid may respond more positively to you .
2006-09-24 21:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the kid likes hokkien song let him listen to hokkien song for now. Its just a learning phase grow tired of it eventually and he will start listen to kids cd soon.
2006-09-24 21:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by say_what!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about your son's choice of music, especially right now. He probably enjoys the tone and music. Don't know what you believe about the spirit world, but he is probably just deeply in tune with his roots.
Our ancestry is Irish and Scottish. Our kids have always preferred the bagpipes and Celtic music over everything else as infants and toddlers.
Traditional music is better for his brain development
2006-09-24 23:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by auld mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids like some things, and are completely bored by others. Sometimes they get bored watching things that they almost always liked before. Solve the problem by playing the one he likes to listen to. Bring the kids one out every once in awhile to see if he'll like it later.
2006-09-24 21:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your son away from your mother in law if you don't want your son to end up as a Hokkien Ah Beng when he grows up! Please, we have enough Mark Lees to torment us! Your son should start nursery school quite soon....so he's gotta start appreciating ang moh songs!
Then again, my mum kept me away from her own mum coz she was worried I'd end up a foul mouthed Ah Lian. Eventually, I picked up all the bitchy ang moh habits which heartlanders scoffed at...so it's hard for me to integrate into Singapore society.
I guess it's important to strike a balance between your Asian culture and ang moh cosmopolitan behaviour.
2006-09-24 21:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stay away from music and just concentrate on being a grandma. Grandmas take kids for walks, read to them, play toys with them. If they don't like the music grandma plays then she should stop. Good Luck
2006-09-25 01:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the initiating, it really is facebook: who cares? 2d, undesirable selection including relatives. ultimately, what grandparent isn't proud of their grandkid? As for the different subject matters, appears like she's nevertheless a tad sore about your decade lengthy elopement: would no longer were the wisest. try chatting with her rather of yahoo solutions.
2016-11-23 20:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, better buy another kid's CD.
2006-09-24 21:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mutya P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm....I'm confused. He probably likes what he hears most often the best?
2006-09-24 21:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by glitz_and_glitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋