I am 22,working a private firm in chennai, iam getting around 3000 p/m. my problem is iam mentally not feeling well. i always think about what the other person think about me, I came from underdrown family, but now i am steeping up to up. but my mind is always think about and feels about past and future, i feel very ashamed to say this,if I get very good salary in future how can say to my relatives what they think, and if i get that much what i can do these kind of thinking always kills me. generally i affected my mental ill health,always think and feel about future then after thinking i feel tired mentally, but here so many people get very good salary, they lead life, i know my thought is not good but i affected by this, for this my body health is also spoiled. i do not know how to come away from this, but i will help to my people once i come up. is it reflect the my childwood problems, thoughts by growing by my mother guideness, i am really confused please help me and pray for me.
2006-09-24 19:29:00 · 15 answers · asked by Sky lark 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Try to be grateful for the things that are good in your life..and let God handle it from now on...through His Son...Jesus Christ all things are possible...maybe if you do get a good salary later and can help your relatives things will be better for all.
2006-09-24 20:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
22 Years of age (Point No.1 : You have a long period ahead)
1. Count your blessings:I was walking,Cars,Two Wheelers
crossed me and I was thinking others are blessed with
Vehicles but I was not and suddenly I saw a handicap person
limbing. I saw My legs 9I was blessed with strong legs).
2. If 3000/- couldn't make you happy even 3 Lakh per month cannot make you happy. It is not Money but acceptance of what you get.
3.All the people have there own problems and so don't think that others will be always thinking about you.
4. Rome was not built in a day so think positively and wait for things to turn.
5.You will get what you deserve and nobody can snatch it so improve your deserved level.
6.Try to find space for enjoying your life(Positive way) and
take things light.
7. It is not what others think about you but WHAT YOU ARE and
WHAT YOU DESERVE
ALL THE BEST
2006-09-25 02:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by mannan_malar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i bet your family is very proud of you for stepping up and doing well. you don't have to feel bad because you have made more of your life some people are more fortunate or have more skills. you should not worry so much and let yourself enjoy what you have made for yourself.you are a decent person and will help who ever you can along the way.but you need to stop worriyng so much it can effect you mentally but you are strong you can over come this for yourself and your people.they now look up to you not down on you.i will pray for you. be proud always! good luck.
2006-09-25 02:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by lnay69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is confusing me. Confusion comes when we dont know the facts,but we have to find answer for that immediately. Time solves all the things. That is, at that time you will definetely take the best possible decision.But later when you come to know a few more facts,which you dont know at that time ,you may repent.The fact remains you have taken right decision Which is most suitable to that right time.So, concentrate only on the needful things. Dont bother about unnecessary things
2006-09-25 06:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by BHARANI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This past tax season I earned a lot of money so much that I told my boss that I couldn't accept all the money that I earned through hard work and long hours. She told me that I am worthy of the money I make and that I had to accept it. It was her way of showing the other employees that they too could earn the amounts that I did if they would only apply themselves. You need to understand that your family will benefit from your income. If they ask how much you earn?, it is perfectly alright to tell them you not at liberty to say. You must learn how to accept the amount of money you earn and you do earn it it is not given to you for nothing. You are worth your earnings. So accept it, you make money. I will pray for you to be able to be the person you need to be.
2006-09-25 02:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by carmen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! first of all get relax ur self, Dont improve ur inferiority complex, and dont see other guys who richer than u,just thnink and see the poor guys, thank god for giving atleast this much. Don't worry dont loose ur hope, sit daily in meditation, control urself, make any hobby which use ful to avoid ur unnecessary thinking.
2006-09-25 07:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by nizy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear freind,
hello!
Forget past , Stop worrying at all and dont think what others think abt u but think what u think abt u.Bring positive thoughts to ur mind.Try to see persons who are having less than u and still leading happy life then u shall overcome this depression.
Yours
rkbhartiya
2006-09-25 03:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by ravinder b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can only give your family someone to be proud of,don't feel bad for doing good things for yourself just don't forget where you came from and your values
2006-09-25 02:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by nosey girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear robert
First of all you cannot change the past. whatever happened , it happened.
Thinking about future is good, but thinking too much will not help.
Don't worry about what others are thinking about you because they too are busy thinking what you think about them.
so better think about your present, because that is how you can make your future better.
Best of luck
2006-09-25 02:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by sd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning of your career,expereince is more imp than salary.Try to concentrate on your job.Things may works on your favor eventually.
2006-09-25 05:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋