I have this friend who is like 32 years old, and likes this girl who is half his age (16) and he tells me that he really loves her, and says that he wants to go "steady" with her. The thing is is that he's still a virgin, and he tells me that he's afraid to date someone his age cause of the inexperience. Do you think it's ok for him to have a relationship with her, or do you think it's wrong?
2006-09-24 18:16:17 · 21 answers · asked by james w 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bait, sorry
2006-09-24 18:18:53 · update #1
its speeled jailbait.yea thats a lil off...id buy him a prostitute...i know that sounds a lil off.desperate times call 4 desperate measures
2006-09-24 18:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by liljimis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it does not make sense for someone who thinks that they are very sensitive and a virgin to make a relationship with someone when, as you say, she is jail bait. why take a risk in any condition? and statistically, in america, how many times do you hear about people who pass a happy lifetime together when they meet at the age of 16 and 32? sixteen years is already a big difference, but it can be done, not when one party hasn't even graduated from high school. just think about her senior prom? chances are that he needs to think about it for a long while and maybe get couseling.
2006-09-24 18:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by new yorkr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son seems to have the same problem. I don't agree with it. I don't think it is right and he should wait until the girl becomes of age. He could get into a lot of trouble depending on what state he lives in.
2006-09-24 18:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooo, that is a bad idea! He could at least mess with someone who is 18. Im sure a woman his age might not mind the fact that he's inexperienced. Goodluck 2 ur friend.
2006-09-24 18:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes her because she's young, hot, and they're both mentally the same age.
BTW, it's spelled Jail Bait
2006-09-24 18:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by KFIfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that was the same age difference they have been married 35 years and going strong .
As long as they don't have sex till she is of age and married , no problem .
2006-09-24 18:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 will get you 20
2006-09-24 18:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by glacier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend has to give his head a shake and realize what hes going for is a little far out of his reach.
2006-09-24 18:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a sick bastard, and you should let that girl's parents know what that old f--cker is planning. I do NOT care if he says she's chasing him or not! ....He is the ONLY adult in that scenario, and he should seek mental help. .....I myself think he should go to jail where he could get a little "jail-yard justice" to set his a$.$. straight!
2006-09-24 18:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by ☺ . CIEL . ☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This dude is lost. He could go to jail for it. He needs to go hire a hooker and get some experience. Yes, its wrong.
2006-09-24 18:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋