but i've never been on top before.
i'm afraid the sex won't be as good,
seeing as i have no idea what i'd be doing.
any advice?
2006-09-24 17:48:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
always try and be open to experiment cos if u dont then u wont know whats good and whats not
2006-09-24 17:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time i did it, i was on top. (asmost of the time)
You try to do it lying on top of him instead of sitting up, it will feel more similar to what you have done before. Your clit will have friction against his bone and that will feel good too. If he stays still he is probably enjoying it! if not, he will try to move and you might also find it stimulating.
An advantage id that if you are on top, his hands will be free to play with your breasts.
I guess it's nicer for him to be with someone who doesn't just lie down and the he has to do all the work, if you are on top, he will feel some feedback on how you are enjoying it.
You have to experiment a bit, but only if you are 100% comfortable with what you will be doing. Being on top is totally normal, there is nothing weird or pervert about it and is nicer than staying still. Don't be nervous about it, relax and your body will know exactly how to do it. Just use his penis to pleasure yourself.
2006-09-24 18:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by tanlonghair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not difficulty. clone of with each little thing else, there's a gaining understand-how of curve and it receives extra ideal with practice. shifting up and down can get onerous after a lengthy time period, so once you get drained you could try grinding. flow your hips again and forth without going up and down, or, if you're feeling bold, flow them in circles. (Going area to area is a foul theory - for some reason adult adult males can get damage that way.) you'll locate that it is a fashion for you to orgasm throughout the time of sex to boot. also, you do not must be the only one which strikes once you're on good. once you want to take a relax, he can take over from the bottom. trust me, it really is conceivable, and it could be extremely a calming vacation. regrettably, the element about sex positions is that you're not to any extent further commonly going to purpose one out and performance it paintings completely on the on the spot. They take practice. do not supply up on positions only because you tried them once and it did not on the on the spot paintings the way you needed it to. do not enable anybody ever fool you into questioning that sex is a organic skills that anybody has, and that anybody is common with the thanks to do it instinctively. it really is resembling driving a bike - you're going to take some spills. yet you want to shop getting into case you want to start up coming.
2016-11-23 20:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by mehboob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know this...you will get more in you if you are on top. You will scream another octave higher. You will be doing it like that all the time for awhile afterwards. You should be open for a few new things until you learn that you don't like them. Never know what you like til you try. Not saying you should get freaky but not saying you shouldn't either! If it sounds good try it, if it doesn't...try it once anyway! }: )
2006-09-24 17:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being on top allows you to control the depth of penetration, pace of sexual play and the way your body reacts. It is far and away the most powerful position a woman can be in to have complete control over her reactions. You might enjoy it much better. If you tried it once you might also find you prefer it.
2006-09-24 17:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by mommakaye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much! I did the exact same thing -- I was so worried about getting out of my comfort zone that I worked myself into a tizzy wondering if I would know what to do and when. But you know what? When the time came, it just happened naturally. I didn't over-analyze or think too much, and it was incredible. Believe me, it's easier than it looks!
2006-09-24 17:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Scarlett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was nervous to be on top the first time i tried, i wasn't sure which way exactly to move.. how it would feel. at first it was different.. but after time it has become my favorite position. i think it's easier to orgasm when i'm on top bc i have more control and it's deeper penetration.
hmm as for advice.. after you have tried it the normal way a lot, try leaning your upper body back a bit, the angle adds even deeper penetration and feels soooo good. ;) enjoy
2006-09-24 17:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by nyczclara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be on top before a motorcycle accident I was in on 8/20/99 and used to love it.
I can't anymore though.
2006-09-24 17:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by flowwer_1371 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is experienced, even if he's not, he should help you and hold you by your waist and guide you to where it feels right. be open to it, don't be afraid. if you try too hard and think too hard about it, it prolly wont be good. its not only a one person thing, while he is on the bottom, to start off or to get the rhythm, he should hump from the bottom while you ride on top.
2006-09-24 17:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Janine L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the Movie "Woman on top" to get some idea
2006-09-24 17:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by CK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting on top, think about riding him like the Lone Ranger did Silver. LOL Enough said.
2006-09-24 17:50:27 · answer #11 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋