this boy i started going out with the 17th broke up with me on the 20th because he loves another girl. but i dont understand because why would he even ask me out if he was in love with someone else? i need help. you people may have heard about me. my friend posted something about me how im always sad & that i need help with a doctor & stuff. well yeah i need help so someone help me please.
2006-09-24 17:38:44 · 8 answers · asked by [* AMANDA MARiiE *] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may hurt, but he was using you. People will only use you if you allow them too. Do not let yourself get caught up in the emotions of some guy who is not for you and cares nothing about you. Guys do stupid stupid things for stupid stupid reasons. Value yourself, know who you are and be proud of YOU. Quit focusing on some guy who is beneath you. It may be hard right now, but be patient, look outside your box, there is a whole world out there waiting for you to live it. I have been depressed in years past, but I have seen happier days and I know you will too.
2006-09-24 17:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Child, he went with you for three days because he was separated from the girl he 'loves' and wanted to show her how easy it was for him to get another girl!
That's the stupid way ignorant boys (and too many men) prove their love; why just hurt one when you can hurt two for the same price?
Your sadness is understandable. I am not certain if I have heard of you through your friend, although it is possible.
What is apparant is that you want help for a variety of complications.
Please take a deep breath.
Close your eyes and take another deep breath.
Put both of your feet solidly on the floor and sit as upright as you are able on a straight back chair. If you cannot find a straight back chair, then just sit erectly on the flattest bottom chair you have. Sit with the crown of your head in alignment with your straight and erect back.
Take another deep breath.
Place both of your palms on the top of each of your legs about a finger length back from your knee cap.
Take another deep breath. Breathe. Just breathe. Keep breathing until you feel a calmness come over you followed by a tingling touch of energy.
Now, get up and lift your hands toward the sky! Swing your arms! Move your torso! Feel that breath! Live that energy! Smile!
Clear your mind of friends and postings and pseudo boyfriends. Breath. Clear your mind. Feel your energy. Know that your energy is completely untapped life. Your life.
Breathe.
If you need prescribed meds to feel better then I suggest taking them. I take a variety myself. They don't make me feel stoned but they do get my mind to a place where I can breathe.
Good luck, baby sister.
Breathe.
2006-09-25 01:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Temple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy may have just been trying to find out if he had those 'feelings' for you. Relationships are all about trying to work together, and unfortunately, this one didn't work out. Don't stress out over it, though. Finding a decent boyfriend takes patience, cooperation, and it also takes effort on BOTH sides to make it work. Don't worry, soon enough you'll find the right guy :)
2006-09-25 00:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably had some problems w/ his girl so he wanted to test the waters. once he met you he probably realized what he was missing. so just dont get involved w/ him no more cuz he'll keep goin back n forth. just move on be strong keep urself busy (read a novel, work out, play sports, watch movies, hang w/ friends, hike, travel) better to be alone and busy than thinkin about someone who will bring misery to ur life everyday
2006-09-25 00:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by djtek19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend,
Your love life,career,job,marriage ...
Well dear friend everything is absolutely in your hand.
The more you think of it the more restless you will be.
just have positive attitude towards your life, have strong self image. think big dream big and work accordingly sincerely.
your confidence should reflect in your eyes,posture,talk.
you are sure to get very good job of your expectations .
Remember one thing GOD is always there with you.
Dont go the way life takes you,take the life the way you go.
As a true friend my best wishes are always with you.
keep smiling
have wonderful future.
raj
2006-09-25 00:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by dreamsunltd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's in love with another girl then move on girl
2006-09-25 00:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe to get the other girl jealous
2006-09-25 00:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by jonnybanas18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him, that's always a better one..
2006-09-25 00:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by eZY jOHn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋