My girlfriend and I spent our night at a friend's party 4 weeks ago. We were very drunk that night. She told me that her breast hurts and feels nauseated every morning. Is she pregnant? I do not want her to be pregnant. I used a condom though and it is my first time losing my virginity to her and her first time. We plan to marry in october 2007, oh great, my future is down the drain, should I plan the marriage earlier like before she has the baby if there is a baby?
2006-09-24 17:37:53 · 12 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You deserve it for being such a horn dog
2006-09-24 17:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down.
Then go to a store and get an at home pregnancy test. If it's negative, problem solved. She can always go to her doctor to make sure. If it's positive, then don't change your wedding plans. It won't be a big deal to anyone that the baby was born before you said your vows.
Talk to her about what she wants to do if she's pregnant, does she want to keep it and raise it, does she want to put it up for adoption, does she want to have an abortion... While you have SOME say, it's ultimately HER decision. If you feel that a baby will ruin your life, then I suggest that you get counseling, preferably with her. A baby is a blessing, even if it wasn't planned. You two love each other enough to be planning a wedding, so think about what is more important to you: keeping her, or keeping a care-free lifestyle.
2006-09-24 18:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lessons are learned the hard way, my friend! First see if she is pregnant, than you may want to support the baby by paying child support other than that you do not have to marry her unless you love her. Marriage without love and commitment does not work and is bad mainly for the baby. Have her take a test and see a doctor. DO NOT seek abortion if she is pregnant, consult her and have the baby put up for adoption. There are so many couples out there who would like to adopt a child. Best Wishes!!
2006-09-24 17:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when people have sex, and dont think about the consequences. You future doesnt go down the drain? Especially if you were planning on marrying this girl anyway, it just means (if she is pregnant) that you will have to work hard. Sex is for reproducinng, petting is for pleasure.
2006-09-24 19:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take a preg. test first. Then go from there. There is no reason you have to move the wedding up earlier. Unless that is what you want to do, but it might not need to even be an issue until you actually find out if she is pregnant first.
2006-09-24 18:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Aunie Stina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 22:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by grewe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Stick with your plan. If there is a baby BEFORE you plan to marry... let it happen. Don't change your plans... let them come to pass and deal with a pregnancy IF THERE IS ONE. Don't panic... all girls' boobs get sore before (up to a week before) their period. If you used a condom and when you pulled it off seaman was in it... you should be o.k. I had a condom break on me once and I DID NOT get pregnant.
Good luck bro.
2006-09-24 17:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by whatzerface 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you panic, take a pregnancy test.
If she is pregnant, sit down and talk to her about if you should get married. You don't have to, or you can chose to wait. Don't get married because she is pregnant, get married because you both feel it is the right decision.
2006-09-24 17:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by ladyladance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if she's pregnant, then move the wedding up, then make a financial plan, then be happy with your family, and don't stress everything will be ok, just not exactly what you planned.
2006-09-24 18:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry take a medical advice and get the pregnency test done it is not costly . dont get over hyped on the issue. stil medicines are ther to take care if she is pregnant at this stage.
2006-09-24 17:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by ravishr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah she's pregnant! Also, get a preg test just to confirm....I am sure she is tho. Congrats! :0)
2006-09-24 17:46:58 · answer #11 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋