Sorry if you just read this, but this is so important to me I want as many responses as I can get, so...
I almost dropped the "L" word on the gf for the first time last night and in hindsight wish I would have. It was a very good/positive emotional moment. Question: should I wait for another similar moment or does it matter? Can I drop it out of the blue and still have a positive effect? I have told women I love them before (and thought I meant it), but have never felt anything close to what I feel for her now and want to get this right.
And before anyone accuses me of alterior motives, I want to say I really am falling in love with her and I am as convinced as I can be that she is with me. I am not exactly scared, but definitely a little gunshy.
2006-09-24 17:16:00 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As in "L - adies" or "L - oser" or "L - eave" my questions alone...You are "The One" b/c you can't count to two???
2006-09-24 17:29:13 · update #1
You should only say it when you mean it, when you definitely know that you love her, not just falling in love. where you say doesn't matter. don't worry about getting it right. if she feels the same, it wouldn't matter to her where and how you say it. the best moments happen when you don't plan for them.
2006-09-24 17:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by vsc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I thought you ment the show The L Word...
Anyway, There is no such thing as a bad time to say "I love you". Women love that kinda stuff. It shows that you care, dude just go for it.
2006-09-25 00:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by cheeeeeezymouse25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are cuddled up watching a movie.When the commercial comes on tell her.Only if you really mean it.She will love it.
2006-09-25 00:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say if you feel it, share it. why not? the worst that could happen is she wouldn't say it back. maybe right then, but i'm sure if you really feel you love her, it's mostly likely mutual, and she's probably just waiting for you to say it first anyhow
2006-09-25 00:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by moon baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋