At what age will you let your daughter go over to a boyfriends house alone? Why at this age instead of another--if at all? If you don't have a teenager or a daughter--just answer hypothetically!
2006-09-24 17:14:58 · 26 answers · asked by .vato. 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I wasn't allowed any were alone till I was 18. My brother has had full freedom sense he was 14. I was always with a grownup, a cell phone, and a curfew. I think I will do the same thing for ALL my children. Boys and girls both. No stupid double standard.
2006-09-24 17:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by gin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetically, NEVER! lol I remember how I was as a teenager and I would hope to high hell that my daughter wouldn't be like me. But since I'm going to end up with 3 boys I guess I don't have to worry about that too much. A friend told me that with boys you only have to worry about one penis, with girls you have to worry about every single penis out there. LOL
If I did have girls, I'd say it would depend on my daughter. If I think she's mature enough to make wise decisions (not having sex) then I'd let her go at probably around 14-15 if his parents are going to be home. If I don't think she's mature enough, then she'd never go. But where there is a will, there is a way, so I'm sure she'd make it over there whether I said ok or not.
2006-09-25 00:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends I guess on the kind of relationship you have with your daughter, honestly I'm a teenager, and If she really wants to go she'll go wether you give her permission or not. She'll just say she's going to her friend's house or something. I would much rather know my daughter is out possibly having sex with her boyfriend than to think she's reading teenvogue at her friend's house or something. I'm a teenager so all I can say is probably at 17 because I think by then most girls have a good idea of what they're doing, and what they want to do.
2006-09-25 00:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my daughter is only 3 now, so I don't even want to think about it. I probably won't let her go to a boyfriend's house alone unless I know the mom or dad is there. There are too many instances of teenage pregnancy for me to be comfortable with it.
2006-09-25 00:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by ariannaandtjsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a choice you have to make own ur own. You know your daughter, but do you know the boy or his parents? As for me my step-daughter is 13 and lives with me. She is short and has a great shape I think she is at the point where a guy can tell her anything and she just may drop them you have to keep that line of communication open. Let them know what you except and what you just want stand for. My kids know this. As for going over to a guys house...why can't he come over to your house? But then again that is a personal choice you have make with your husband and daughter.
2006-09-25 02:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by smokkie29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that anything under the age on thirteen, because it isn't until at this age that most girls are wise enough to make the right decisions in any given situation. if it were me and if I had kids, I'd go meet the parents and/or go do lunch somewhere to talk to them. this will help you determine what kind of people they are. after that, I'd only let her go visit her new man if she had responsible adult people there. that way if anything happened there she could be helped, like if he let his penis do more thinking than his brain or something. another thing that you could also do it have some sort of thing where she could invite her friends and boyfriend over for a little bit of time to hang out. like a party for no reason, but with you and maybe other parents there. this could help you get to know some of the parents of the kids your child hangs out with. I think that things have become too dangerous to let any kid go anywhere without you knowing the kind of people that he/she is hanging out with, good luck hunny!!!
2006-09-25 00:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Shan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 to 17, at this age they are no longer children and will find a way to be alone with their boyfriends anyway. I'd rather have an idea where they are at than make them think they have to sneak around to see their boyfriends. Having a boyfriend is a normal part of life at this age and I'd rather keep the lines of communication open.
2006-09-25 09:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In an early age like 15 years old but with a curfew of 12 midnite on the weekds, and zero on the weekdays because that is when she is supposed to be studying for homework .
After a while, you tell the daughter to bring home the boyfriend at least on several occassions (including Easter and Christmas) to see how he behaves and if he is well mannered.
Normally the guy will try to bring something for the house, like a piece of cake, if he is invited for dinner and after dinner he will try his best to answer all of your questions. Please be patient with him. Remember if he loves your daughter with all of his heart, he will wait for her until the parents of the bride to give their consent.
2006-09-25 00:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by soar_2307 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alone? As a mother, I won't allow it at ANY age!!! Of course that's not to say it will not happen! Don't i trust my daughters? Absolutely! However i don't trust a teenage boy with raging harmones and his over stimulated imagination, and over stimulated whatever else!
Age is irrelevant as some children mature faster than others, plus their sense of responsibility and basic values and or morals, are sometimes questionable.
2006-09-25 00:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by La Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt let my daughter do this at all until she is of age for dating. These days u dont know what these teenagers are thinking about
2006-09-25 02:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by good4u06@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋