I have known my friend Dan for about a year now. we're close but since he has a lot going on, we spend only time at work together(like he does with everyone else) but the difference is we're real friends, we talk about a lot and bond, we can be silly and I'm always there 4 him and he's the same with me, very accepting we respect and support each other and enjoy being around each other. I feel I am definitely the cloest to him.( we bag at a super market, customer service,trash and collect carts. we spend a lot of 1 on 1 time together. I want to be able 2 show him on a daily basis that I have real feelings 4 him. it's hard cuz Dan doesn't always say how he feels,he's real appropriate at work,friendly to all, so it's harder 2 know how he feels 4 me. I think it's harder 4 him 2 open up on 1 on 1 ways cuz he's not experience wit dat, h.s was hard, people picked on him 4 being so nice and jus different. what are your thoughts, sujestions and opinions. I'd love to hear them all.
2006-09-24 17:11:00 · 9 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you both seem to like one another...maybe you need to be the aggressive one ! You said he had a hard time in H S and he has a hard time expressing himself ! If you are willing to put your heart out there....tell him how you feel..but at the same time let him know that you would understand (even if you really wouldn't) if he didn't feel the same....but you just had to let him know ! Who knows.....maybe he feels the same and is afraid to say anything ! Go for it....at least you will know where things stand between you ! Good luck ! Hope all works out for you !
2006-09-24 17:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by lilbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
Lucky to have such a nice true friend.
well, you can always do little extra than expected , that makes the person your are doing for to think little more about you.
always do unexpected good things for him. take care of small small things for him , keep smiling show him tell him that he is the best company for you in the world and you can never think of being without him. Tell him frankly that you love him so much so that whether he loves you or not makes no difference to you.
this should definitely make him think 4 you in deeply. Do small small good things, appreciate him even 4 smmalest good thing he does, his behaviour,thoughts etc...that will touch his heart feelings.
have wonderful love.
raj.
2006-09-24 17:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by dreamsunltd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him a card that really expresses 4 u what u feel for him, or write him a letter that tells him where u stand on your feelings for him it is easier 2 read it more personal that way. nobody gets 2 c u guys in an awkward situation and make sure u ask him 2 WRITE u back that way there is no uncomfortable stuttering, stares or face 2 face when u finally do get 2 speak 2 one another.let me know how it goes either way , im pulling for u sounds like u really like him.
2006-09-24 17:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , My guess is you are 16 or 17 .
He is shy or has not got a car of his own ,he may be helping his mom with home expenses and has no money left to ask you out .
Wow you could write a book in here.!
2006-09-24 17:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for a coffee after work. Talk and get to know him. Tell him that you had a good time with him and you like to do it again. If he doesn't get the hint. Just tell him that you like him. What do you have to lose.
2006-09-24 17:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Merlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't split this records one nice day...without caution. U understand adult adult males flow loopy at the same time as something like this happens, they do get annoyed, the suitable way is to end calling him, and easily entertain him *only at the same time as he asks to* even do not ask any element from him. at the same time as he figures this records out then you actually tell him your split aspect genitally and likewise do not roam round with a guy he would get suspicious and would reason danger to that guy.
2016-11-23 20:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and do what your heart tells you
2006-09-24 17:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by tommiesonn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull down your pants, that'll give him some attention at least.
2006-09-24 17:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by revolou 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
somehow just let them know.
2006-09-24 17:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by likeablerabbit_loose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋