2006-09-24 17:05:59 · 29 answers · asked by amy_butterflyblade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just to clear things up, it's not me, so don't take your righteous anger out on me.
2006-09-25 22:38:51 · update #1
Absolutely not and the same would go for a married woman. This goes right along with my question. My friend is married and having an affair and she is feeling the guilt. My advice for her would be the same for you. Rethink your decision. Being married is not always good but you have to think about what is right and how you would feel in the morning or after. My husband means the world to me and I would be crushed to find out that he was cheating. Things aren't always good but in the end they work out for the best.
2006-09-24 17:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by hedge 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Conscious makes cowards of us all, but not necessarily. Just the fact that you are contemplating this tells me that you may have the ability not to feel guilty about it. Guilt is an individual characteristic. Only you can determine if having an affair is worthy of feeling guilt over.
2006-09-25 00:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kwan Kong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that you asked that question. To me people like that are sick. if there children involved and end up the family will be broken up I would call them a home wrecker. But I think the both of you should feel quilty because you guys don't have any lack of respect of the childrens or near the other spouse. So back off and leave any married man alone.
2006-09-25 00:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Hawaiianlady 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can have an affair and not feel guilty about it...if you're both married and in Bad marriages but stay together for health and financial reasons and really love each other
2006-09-25 00:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Think of it as a ballgame. The batter always spends some time in the warm up box so he can better hit the old balls.
2006-09-25 12:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose, ...if you have no self-respect or conscience. How would you feel if your husband had an affair with another woman?
Believe me, a spouse KNOWS when their mate is cheating and you'd be a fool to not heed that warning.
2006-09-25 00:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by niteowl716 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes if you have a heart like a rock with a hole in it! Marriage is sacred, and God does not like interference in a marriage. What God has joined together let no man [or woman] put asunder.---wedding vows
Adultery is like heaping hot coals into your lap!
from the Bible
2006-09-25 00:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by winkcat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually not cuz later the more u see him the more u'll want more of him and later it could cause a problem between him and his wife. i'd stop this affair if you are having one while you can. there's plenty of fish in the sea, why go for someone that's taken?
2006-09-25 00:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by djtek19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you didn't know he was married when you had the affair - but then when you find out he's married...I'm sure the guilt would come.
2006-09-25 00:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At first there is alot of GUILT and fear.......I been there and done that for 4 yrs once.......we were both married, that was 12 yrs ago.now his wife has left him because he is an alcholic and can't keep a job.........and now he trying to step back into my life..........I got no time for all that now.........he went from a enbalmer to a WINEO............But yes there is guilt and shame.............
2006-09-25 01:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by nomansangel69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋